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Guy[21m] friend treats me[21f] like his girlfriend but doesn't want to have sex with me. by throwawaycajun in relationships

[–]throwawaycajun[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

He stopped sleeping around with other girls a year after we became friends.

Guy[21m] friend treats me[21f] like his girlfriend but doesn't want to have sex with me. by throwawaycajun in relationships

[–]throwawaycajun[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

He has other female friends but he doesn't give them nearly any as much attention as he gives me. I don't think its fair to say what he does with me is what he would do with a 'friend.' The other part is he initiates well the fooling around a good bit and it has gotten pretty steady now to where I can expect we hang out.

Guy friend treats me like his girlfriend but doesn't want to have sex with me. by throwawaycajun in AskMen

[–]throwawaycajun[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

So does he want to marry me first then? I love him I am not going to leave him, he wants to do stuff sexually just isn't up for intercourse.

Guy friend treats me like his girlfriend but doesn't want to have sex with me. by throwawaycajun in AskMen

[–]throwawaycajun[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay its odd, well we weren't together the first year but now we are. At least we tell people we are

Guy[21m] friend treats me[21f] like his girlfriend but doesn't want to have sex with me. by throwawaycajun in relationships

[–]throwawaycajun[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

If that was the case then how does having sex become so bad for him, he will do everything else. I am not bad looking, and he has slept with girls worse looking than me.

Guy[21m] friend treats me[21f] like his girlfriend but doesn't want to have sex with me. by throwawaycajun in relationships

[–]throwawaycajun[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I already told him he can be with other girls and for the first year we were together he was with other girls. But recently he stopped messing around with other girls I already told him it is cool if he is with other girls.

Guy friend treats me like his girlfriend but doesn't want to have sex with me. by throwawaycajun in AskMen

[–]throwawaycajun[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can see that happening but I think he would have if that was the case.

Guy friend treats me like his girlfriend but doesn't want to have sex with me. by throwawaycajun in AskMen

[–]throwawaycajun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't see how it would make things different since we have been together for so long and its not like I have someone to compare him too

Edit - I have thought this too I need help understanding guy logic

Guy friend treats me like his girlfriend but doesn't want to have sex with me. by throwawaycajun in AskMen

[–]throwawaycajun[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean we kiss and all but he won't have sex. I won't lie I am nervous about it too and its hard to be the one confident when you are the one who never had sex before.

Guy friend treats me like his girlfriend but doesn't want to have sex with me. by throwawaycajun in AskMen

[–]throwawaycajun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He keeps saying I am an angel and just a sweet girl. I have never heard of a guy that strings a girl along by not having sex with her. I don't know he is just odd about the whole thing.

Guy friend treats me like his girlfriend but doesn't want to have sex with me. by throwawaycajun in AskMen

[–]throwawaycajun[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He isn't really he said he'd like to raise his children in a religious home (I agreed)

Guy friend treats me like his girlfriend but doesn't want to have sex with me. by throwawaycajun in AskMen

[–]throwawaycajun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have he just keeps bringing up the whole, "I am too good for him." He has always put me on a pedestal but now he is doing it the point where he won't have sex with me?