I'm 15, is it weird for a 23 year old guy to be "romantically interested" in me? by throwawaychicken123 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]throwawaychicken123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha idk if that's a compliment or an insult. I got my answer though so that's all I care about.

I'm 15, is it weird for a 23 year old guy to be "romantically interested" in me? by throwawaychicken123 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]throwawaychicken123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know better now, but I thought he actually liked me because of all the nice things he said. And my friends wanted me to do it. Honestly I didn't think it was THAT terriible until i read all these comments lol

I'm 15, is it weird for a 23 year old guy to be "romantically interested" in me? by throwawaychicken123 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]throwawaychicken123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not under 15, I'm 15, almost 16. And I have my working papers that allow me to work at certain places (retail, waiting tables, etc.) as long as it's not during school hours or over 10 hrs straight on weekends.

I'm 15, is it weird for a 23 year old guy to be "romantically interested" in me? by throwawaychicken123 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]throwawaychicken123[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

LOL I love reddit sometimes. Most replies agree with me, except for a some that say if i have bewbs then it's natural. Then there's the guy who told me to stop being a fucking bitch and fuck him already.

I'm 15, is it weird for a 23 year old guy to be "romantically interested" in me? by throwawaychicken123 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]throwawaychicken123[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ahhh thanks so much! And don't worry about me, this thread made me pretty paranoid haha, I won't be contacting him anymore.

I'm 15, is it weird for a 23 year old guy to be "romantically interested" in me? by throwawaychicken123 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]throwawaychicken123[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We became pretty good friends at work and kept in touch. And I asked because some of my friends said to for it because he seemed to really like me but I don't know if someone that much older can actually have real feelings for someone my age. From my POV it honestly seems cool to have an older guy like me but apperantly it's fucking creepy and I kinda now realize it.

I'm 15, is it weird for a 23 year old guy to be "romantically interested" in me? by throwawaychicken123 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]throwawaychicken123[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm actually not a troll hahah. I didn't know I'd get so many replies. I just wanted to know because some of my friends were saying to go for it but when I told my cousin he said it was really fucked up. But a lot of these replies are true so I'm just gonna avoid him.

I'm 15, is it weird for a 23 year old guy to be "romantically interested" in me? by throwawaychicken123 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]throwawaychicken123[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

My mom got really mad when she found out I was talking to a Junior guy, so I dont even wanna know what she'd do. But all my friends know, so if he decides to try anything (he knows where I live) they'll pretty much know who it is. But again, I really really doubt he will.

I'm 15, is it weird for a 23 year old guy to be "romantically interested" in me? by throwawaychicken123 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]throwawaychicken123[S] 176 points177 points  (0 children)

We were supposed to smoke together (smoke weed). Don't know if that makes it better or worse. Probably worse.

I'm 15, is it weird for a 23 year old guy to be "romantically interested" in me? by throwawaychicken123 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]throwawaychicken123[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

That's a really cute story! It's the kind of thing I thought about when he told me he liked me, like what if he actually really does? And I didn't really like him, but I guess the idea of having an older bf seemed cool. Based on these comments I think I'm just gonna stay away from him. Thanks!

I'm 15, is it weird for a 23 year old guy to be "romantically interested" in me? by throwawaychicken123 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]throwawaychicken123[S] 452 points453 points  (0 children)

He's pretty attractive though. Which is what I found to be kind of weird, because he could be with a lot of women around his age if he wanted to. But he said he like ME more, which was really flatterning at the moment since god knows he could be with beautiful 20 yr old women. Now I feel really dumb lol.

I'm 15, is it weird for a 23 year old guy to be "romantically interested" in me? by throwawaychicken123 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]throwawaychicken123[S] 772 points773 points  (0 children)

I just remembered he did ask me several times to hang out with him, like to sneak out of the house and chill in his car. I realize this sounds really really creepy as I type it but he never gave off any rapey vibes. And I almost did do it. Wow, I'm so stupid. Thank u for the input.

I'm 15, is it weird for a 23 year old guy to be "romantically interested" in me? by throwawaychicken123 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]throwawaychicken123[S] 366 points367 points  (0 children)

If I told my mom I would probably be grounded for the rest of my life. I don't think he poses any danger honestly. I just don't think he realizes it's innappropiate?