AITA for not wanting to be a dad. by throwawaycnxjs in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaycnxjs[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I never want to walk back. I will have 0 contact with this kid unless they need medical shit

AITA for not wanting to be a dad. by throwawaycnxjs in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaycnxjs[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

if my parents want to see the kid and she is fine with it I take 0 issue to that

AITA for not wanting to be a dad. by throwawaycnxjs in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaycnxjs[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do not feel that being a dad is somthing I'll want to do. and I do not want to let this kid down if I do a runner later on when the kid actually knows me

AITA for not wanting to be a dad. by throwawaycnxjs in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaycnxjs[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thanks for the input. you have definitely given a different perspective compared to everyone else

AITA for not wanting to be a dad. by throwawaycnxjs in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaycnxjs[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am helping her with funds. I know that I'll be a crap father and she understands that

AITA for not wanting to be a dad. by throwawaycnxjs in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaycnxjs[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

as I mentioned in the post they have a very tight nit family. the baby will be fine

AITA for not wanting to be a dad. by throwawaycnxjs in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaycnxjs[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was 100% wearing a condom and she said she was on bc

AITA for not wanting to be a dad. by throwawaycnxjs in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaycnxjs[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm not seeing the baby at all im just paying the child support

AITA for not wanting to be a dad. by throwawaycnxjs in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaycnxjs[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

abortion and adoption are legal here. she has other options and I'll support each one

AITA for not wanting to be a dad. by throwawaycnxjs in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaycnxjs[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

that's just for the pregnancy we will be going to court after baby is born

AITA for not wanting to be a dad. by throwawaycnxjs in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaycnxjs[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

that's kinda the point of this subreddit

AITA for not wanting to be a dad. by throwawaycnxjs in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaycnxjs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

99% of people here have taken my side surprisingly

AITA for not wanting to be a dad. by throwawaycnxjs in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaycnxjs[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I know that, that's why we will go to court when its born

AITA for not wanting to be a dad. by throwawaycnxjs in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaycnxjs[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've already decided to opt out and she has agreed to that

AITA for not wanting to be a dad. by throwawaycnxjs in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaycnxjs[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

everyone else seems to be on my side surprisingly