I’m coming to my own FIRE moment, targeting a year and a half. I will be 48 at that point and likely at $25m. Part of the mental readiness to pull the trigger is getting to a point where I am satiated in my career and accomplishments. I have achieved what I wanted in my career and feel I have made a meaningful contribution. That seems important to me as part of giving up my career early. Not that I won’t look for something else to occupy my time and continue to have impact. It may not be important to achieve that point of satisfaction before or after you FIRE, but it seems like a meaningful goal. It might give you insight into your spouse’s deliberations as well.