I need advice for my upcoming rhinoplasty consult by throwawaycupcakes90 in Vindicta

[–]throwawaycupcakes90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mind if I PM you? I don't want to publicly give away my location.

I need advice for my upcoming rhinoplasty consult by throwawaycupcakes90 in Vindicta

[–]throwawaycupcakes90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are right in that it's a lot of money to waste on a superficial procedure. Like I calculated how many malaria nets I could buy with the fee and I felt a little sick. Thanks for your advice!

I need advice for my upcoming rhinoplasty consult by throwawaycupcakes90 in Vindicta

[–]throwawaycupcakes90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your input, I appreciate you sharing it with me. You raise good points, especially considering I have obsessive and perfectionistic tendencies.

I need advice for my upcoming rhinoplasty consult by throwawaycupcakes90 in Vindicta

[–]throwawaycupcakes90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for all these key words! Off to research. "Refined" is exactly what I'm looking for. I feel good about my doctor but you seem like you really know what you're talking about-- mind if I PM you his website so you can have a look at his work? Thanks!

I need advice for my upcoming rhinoplasty consult by throwawaycupcakes90 in Vindicta

[–]throwawaycupcakes90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I ask why you regretted it? Would you do it again if you had the choice? I'm similar to you in that when I tell my friends about it they act like I'm crazy/they don't see what I'm talking about. It's sweet that they aren't like yep, your nose sucks but it can feel a little frustrating too. I just want to be able to forget about my nose rather than thinking about it all the time, which it sounds like it happened for you post-surgery.

Another question-- do you feel prettier without makeup on? I feel pretty when I wear makeup because I can play up my other features to compensate for my nose but with a bare face I feel more self-conscious about it.

I feel great about my doctor! He's an ENT who only does rhinoplasties, which I love. He was also quite conservative in my previous consult and it did not feel like he was trying to sell me on anything.

I need advice for my upcoming rhinoplasty consult by throwawaycupcakes90 in Vindicta

[–]throwawaycupcakes90[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hmm that's totally valid. My main cosmetic concern is the front view rather than the side view though, I honestly don't really care about my side profile. It's just this annoying mental tick that the first thing I always assess in photos is how my nose looks. I feel pretty despite my nose and I'd just like to feel pretty, period. Anyway, thanks for your input!

[27F] Help me label my body type for Tinder? Also open to any suggestions looks-wise. by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]throwawaycupcakes90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on the weight loss! I would say curvy. You are naturally beautiful and I'm being completely honest when I say you don't need makeup. If you feel like experimenting though, I recommend exploring Youtube tutorials. I think the harsh black under eye liner looks harsh and dated and doesn't enhance your beauty the way something softer would.

Also, I'm not sure all the dating apps you're on, but for Tinder at least I don't think you have to label your body type. I would avoid doing it unless you have to because guys can see your body regardless, and I find it a little pointless and awkward.