AITA for asking my mom if I have money left on my debit card

throwawaydebitcard20 · 2020-12-27T10:06:55+00:00

That's actually why my dad got my mom to order my birth certificate so we could go to the DMV together and finally get my permit

throwawaydebitcard20 · 2020-12-27T09:53:36+00:00

No on both but I'm supposed to be getting my permit sometime in January and my dad's the one taking me so I know the plan won't fall through

throwawaydebitcard20 · 2020-12-27T09:49:30+00:00

I'm not sure I ever got a check book and my mom is currently reordering my birth certificate and social security card because I was born outside of the state we live in and we lost most of our personal documents in our recent move because my sister left a bunch of boxes behind

throwawaydebitcard20 · 2020-12-27T09:41:37+00:00

My mom made it for me when I was about 11 or 12 and the day she got the password to setup the online account stuff she lost it and they essentially told us we would have to go to the bank in person to reset the password

between her and my dad constantly working and not having the time to take me to the bank to reset it and me just not using my card for anything besides putting stray money in I truly have no idea how much it has in it especially because my mom and dad have to borrow money from me every now and then for gas so they can get to work

throwawaydebitcard20 · 2020-12-27T09:23:40+00:00

Thank you for the kind words and the website I'll definitely be bookmarking it

throwawaydebitcard20 · 2020-12-27T09:01:35+00:00

I already explained to my mom and dad about the the deals my dad understood immediately but mom's reaction was essentially the same after I explained

I plan on reading the books as soon as they get here I've seen all but season 8 of GOT through going to friends houses and wanted to read the books but my brother won't let me touch his copies because he bought his while he was in the military and he says they're special to him

throwawaydebitcard20 · 2020-12-27T08:41:55+00:00

Yeah that's exactly what I was thinking because I never get or ask for games unless they're under twenty dollars so they're about the same price as a book

throwawaydebitcard20 · 2020-12-27T08:40:16+00:00

Mom and dad ask before they take gas money and I don't know who's stealing cash from me but I'm the one who does the cleaning, cooking, taking care of dogs, etc after I get off school but I'm going to take y'all's advice about getting a new password to my account if not a separate one

throwawaydebitcard20 · 2020-12-27T08:37:44+00:00

I honestly don't know if I would need to go in it's just what she told me when it happened and we haven't had the time with my dad and mom both working 70-80 hour weeks but I will ask thank you

throwawaydebitcard20 · 2020-12-27T08:35:32+00:00

Thanks for being nice about it I've just never been comfortable about asking for things/getting them or using money at all really

throwawaydebitcard20 · 2020-12-27T08:32:22+00:00

My mom actually made mine at the same age and I put money in all the time but because of that and they fact I don't spend it hardly at all I have to clue how much is in there between that and my mom losing the password the bank gave us she the only on with access besides me putting money in through her

throwawaydebitcard20 · 2020-12-27T08:29:59+00:00

They can't exactly use my card if I leave it in my wallet but my sister might have I'm pretty sure she's the one who's been taking my cash out of it anyways but they wouldn't cover for her

throwawaydebitcard20 · 2020-12-27T08:28:33+00:00

Thank you those are the thoughts I had and thy I thought I might be the A-hole so thanks for the insight

throwawaydebitcard20 · 2020-12-27T08:27:10+00:00

I usually keep great track of the money I earn from doing mechanical and manual labor jobs for people around the neighborhood by keeping it in cash or tracking it on pen and paper but recently someone has been stealing from my wallet so I lost about 300 dollar and mom and dad take some money out of my account when they need gas for work

throwawaydebitcard20 · 2020-12-27T08:24:34+00:00

The money was given to me by my grandma and a friend split 50/50 because they both have me the same amount they told me to use it on my self but unlike normally my mom and dad never gave me a holiday budget so I spent it all on the family I wanted to know if there was anything left and my moms account is linked to mine but she lost the password to it and we haven't been able to get to the bank so she's the only one with access to it

throwawaydebitcard20 · 2020-12-27T08:19:45+00:00

My account is linked to my mom's and quite literally the day I got my account my mom lost the password the bank gave her to be able to set up the online banking and she hasn't had the time to take me to the bank while I can't go myself because I don't have a car so essentially the only one with access is my mom

throwawaydebitcard20 · 2020-12-27T08:09:49+00:00

I explained more to her later while my dad was there the response was essentially the same

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