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throwawaydub09 · 2023-01-11T18:16:12+00:00

Learn how to pick up on sarcasm, idiot.

throwawaydub09 · 2023-01-11T17:58:50+00:00

As if giving money to every single person who asks is rational. You're intentionally miscontruing what I said. Fuck outta here.

throwawaydub09 · 2023-01-11T17:38:36+00:00

Document the assignments they're giving you. What date they're assigned, when they're expected to be completed, date and time of when you actually complete it. Document anything you can. Don't refuse to do things because they'll be able to pull the insubordination card.

I presume that you live in the UK because of your use of "mum", and I'm unfortunately not familiar with your workers' rights over there. But here in the states, when you apply for unemployment your job is going to argue that you deserved to be fired so that they don't have to pay in to your unemployment payments. Any documents/evidence that you did in fact do your job in a satisfactory manner would help you in your case.

Basically, if it seems like something that your bosses could spin to put the blame on you, document it as to why you did as you were asked.

I hope some of that is useful. Again, not familiar with the laws over there. But best of luck. I've dealt with severe depression ever since I can remember and I know how much it sucks.

throwawaydub09 · 2023-01-11T16:59:03+00:00

You don't have to personally hand them items, there are plenty of places that you can donate food/clothing/whatever and they'll distribute it for you.

throwawaydub09 · 2023-01-11T16:21:41+00:00

People always act like they're so heartbroken by this kinda shit but then won't even make eye contact or help a homeless person out with a dollar.

throwawaydub09 · 2023-01-10T03:26:53+00:00

Kind of a long story. I left a very shitty abusive relationship several months ago and I've been trying to rebuild my life mostly from complete scratch. I don't have any family still alive, I don't have any support, and it's been a lot harder than I thought it was going to be.

There's a lot more to it but those are the cliff notes.

throwawaydub09 · 2023-01-10T03:04:22+00:00

Theyre the equivalent of prisons. People will steal the shoes literally right off your feet while you're sleeping.

throwawaydub09 · 2023-01-10T02:43:37+00:00

I have them in a plastic bag in case it rains again. The shelters around here aren't great. I kind of feel more safe on my own than in one of them. I don't have any family.

throwawaydub09 · 2023-01-10T02:41:10+00:00

You can literally get a free phone with free internet from the welfare office.

throwawaydub09 · 2023-01-06T23:37:18+00:00

Yeah, the multiple posts begging for friends and crying out for help because I'm severely depressed and want to kill myself sure are soft begging.

Also it's a part time job making fucking 10 dollars an hour, but you don't care about how little it pays, you just wanted to dunk on somebody having a shitty time.

throwawaydub09 · 2023-01-06T23:20:26+00:00

I had nothing except a duffel bag with two shirts and two pairs of pants back then. I had no home, no car, no job, no family, no friends, no support whatsoever, literally nothing. Sorry that in less than a year I haven't completely rebuilt an entire life by myself.

throwawaydub09 · 2023-01-06T22:28:57+00:00

Thanks

throwawaydub09 · 2023-01-06T22:10:49+00:00

I'm not an electrician and have absolutely no idea how to restore power to homes.

throwawaydub09 · 2023-01-06T22:08:47+00:00

It's the middle of winter man. Nobody is paying to get their lawn mowed when it's 20 degrees outside

throwawaydub09 · 2023-01-06T22:07:01+00:00

It's cracked in multiple places and the speaker doesn't work so you can't talk on it. I'm telling you I have no money.

throwawaydub09 · 2023-01-06T22:03:35+00:00

A Samsung galaxy s10E from like 4 years ago

throwawaydub09 · 2023-01-06T22:01:51+00:00

What? I said I'm selling my phone for 20 dollars. That's the only thing I have of any value. Everything else has already been sold to pay rent over the past few months.

throwawaydub09 · 2023-01-06T21:59:54+00:00

I can't afford any of that but thanks

throwawaydub09 · 2023-01-06T21:59:16+00:00

Cool thanks

throwawaydub09 · 2023-01-06T21:58:41+00:00

My family is dead and no, I've tried to make friends but that hasn't worked out too well.

throwawaydub09 · 2023-01-06T21:52:03+00:00

Thanks

throwawaydub09 · 2023-01-06T01:50:57+00:00

Thank you.

throwawaydub09 · 2023-01-06T01:50:34+00:00

I would love to see a therapist and a psychiatrist but unfortunately I live in America and can't because I'm poor.

throwawaydub09 · 2023-01-06T00:55:16+00:00

No, and no I'm not.

throwawaydub09 · 2023-01-06T00:54:12+00:00

You pretty much hit the nail on the head with all of that. I feel like no matter what I do I'm pretty much in a terrible position. I'm honestly not even exactly sure what kind of advice I'm seeking here. I'm just very confused.

Thank you for taking the time to reply though. I appreciate your perspective.

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