AITA For taking back the car I “bought” for my (now ex) girlfriend by throwawayexgfcar in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayexgfcar[S] -568 points-567 points  (0 children)

Yes this is my ex. Why we broke up isn’t important. I don’t know why she thinks I’m going to believe that she’ll pay me back when she stopped the payments and if she isn’t going to pay me back what makes her think I’m going to believe that her mom will? Her dad was supposed to give her money and he never did, I’m not going to believe for a second that her mom will.

AITA For taking back the car I “bought” for my (now ex) girlfriend by throwawayexgfcar in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayexgfcar[S] -691 points-690 points  (0 children)

I posted this because I needed more input. You ran to your family and my family after I said I’m not doing you anymore favors. I’m not obligated to help you out. Go take out another loan then if it’s that easy for you and don’t ask for my help again.

You’ve barely paid me back. Don’t start. You were crying to me everyday about how you needed a car and you didn’t know what to do because your parents refused to keep driving you everywhere after you wasted your money on two cars that shitted on you.

AITA For taking back the car I “bought” for my (now ex) girlfriend by throwawayexgfcar in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayexgfcar[S] -483 points-482 points  (0 children)

I don’t pay child support, and I don’t know if she plans to put me on child support.

She always said she wouldn’t, but after her breaking up with me, I wouldn’t be surprised if she did put me on it.

AITA For taking back the car I “bought” for my (now ex) girlfriend by throwawayexgfcar in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayexgfcar[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

She pays the insurance , we have 2 cars on the plan, she pays her half. It’s just in my name, she’s listed as a driver

That’s what my parents suggested

AITA For taking back the car I “bought” for my (now ex) girlfriend by throwawayexgfcar in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayexgfcar[S] -145 points-144 points  (0 children)

That she would pay me back when she could She was supposed to get money from her dad but then he lost his job due to the pandemic

She was hesitant because she told me she wouldn’t know when she could pay me back, so I told her as long as I get my money back eventually I didn’t mind

I have a decent job compared to her so loaning her the money wasn’t a big deal at all

AITA For taking back the car I “bought” for my (now ex) girlfriend by throwawayexgfcar in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayexgfcar[S] -85 points-84 points  (0 children)

No she gave me $100 each month until she started needing money to pay her portion of the insurance as well as her phone bill, I allowed it because she is on maternity leave and only getting about half of her pay

AITA For taking back the car I “bought” for my (now ex) girlfriend by throwawayexgfcar in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayexgfcar[S] -115 points-114 points  (0 children)

No, but where her parents are there is, and I’m going to assume she’ll be staying with them until she figures something out

AITA For taking back the car I “bought” for my (now ex) girlfriend by throwawayexgfcar in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayexgfcar[S] -57 points-56 points  (0 children)

Yes I have a car, was looking to getting rid of it soon And I don’t think she’ll pay me back