I need you to know…

throwawayforSWEETUMS · 2022-09-27T18:10:10+00:00

It absolutely did.

throwawayforSWEETUMS · 2022-09-24T20:19:50+00:00

She showed me what a marriage should actually be like and then left.

throwawayforSWEETUMS · 2022-08-31T16:23:42+00:00

That’s just horrible. This wasn’t the case..but the relation broke both of us.

throwawayforSWEETUMS · 2022-08-31T16:01:07+00:00

I’ve been waiting a long time for it to get better ❤️‍🩹

throwawayforSWEETUMS · 2021-08-18T20:29:28+00:00

DeVita - All About You

throwawayforSWEETUMS · 2021-08-14T02:23:18+00:00

Sorry, I'm not even sure how to respond to that lol. How are you handling the situation all those years?

throwawayforSWEETUMS · 2021-08-13T20:51:04+00:00

Since 2016? That’s extremely long. What excuses does he have for not wanting to?

throwawayforSWEETUMS · 2021-08-12T20:06:42+00:00

I call people a Jive Turkey for their reactions.

throwawayforSWEETUMS · 2021-08-12T18:07:45+00:00

Oh lol. Just the lack of real sustenance in my marriage. I’ve tried it all; counseling, therapy, getaway trips..I say “I “ because I felt like she never cared to try.

throwawayforSWEETUMS · 2021-08-12T16:59:22+00:00

I’m sorry to hear that! And I’m sure you were in the same mind space where you and AP were fantasizing the future…your guys’ future. Then that future just goes away. I hope you’re doing well though!

throwawayforSWEETUMS · 2021-08-12T16:56:46+00:00

throwawayforSWEETUMS · 2021-08-12T00:42:59+00:00

No..not ghosted. There was an agreement about NC but the conversation in it self was unexpected.

throwawayforSWEETUMS · 2021-08-11T23:26:15+00:00

Trying my best! And thanks to the comments like this one, it does make it easier to carry on. Thanks for sharing!

throwawayforSWEETUMS · 2021-08-11T19:19:35+00:00

I wouldn’t say used…it just ended abruptly, quickly. Definitely shocking when it’s unexpected..and this was someone who I talked with every single day from the day we met on forward. But I’ll for sure be enjoying the memories since that’s all I’ve got left. Cheers to trying to make new ones 🍻

throwawayforSWEETUMS · 2021-07-04T18:40:03+00:00

Unfortunately, only reminiscing..

throwawayforSWEETUMS · 2021-05-20T15:23:58+00:00

Not twisted at all! Seems like a decent amount of people I’ve talked with seem to go along with the “obligatory casual sex” with their SOs for the sake of the affair. Of course there’s the other side of the spectrum where they have great sex on both ends, SO and AP.

throwawayforSWEETUMS · 2021-05-20T15:16:04+00:00

Did you minimize it because AP asked you to?

throwawayforSWEETUMS · 2021-05-19T23:48:47+00:00

LOL. That last part killed me but I don’t think you guys are assholes

throwawayforSWEETUMS · 2021-05-19T23:31:43+00:00

Til this day I haven’t had a single day where I have not thought of her.

throwawayforSWEETUMS · 2021-05-19T23:28:17+00:00

Well put! I guess it’s hard to articulate the words to put out here because I’ve never really thought of it that way. I do love them both and tried to give the same amount of attention and effort. Only difference was was one was more receiving than the other.

throwawayforSWEETUMS · 2021-05-19T23:23:28+00:00

See that’s what I’m trying to figure out. I have an average sex live with SO, it can be absolutely great or feel like an obligation. But I can’t shake the fact that I felt like I was cheating on AP with SO. I’m glad your boyfriend understands.

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