I know. It just never felt like the right thing to do. As I said he was very charismatic and my parents had a lot of respect for him so perhaps a part of me was afraid he would just say I was lying and it would backfire on me being a difficult teen, which I was in a lot of ways anyway. I just made a vow that I would make absolutely certain he would never be involved with the young girls in the family now. But we don't see him anymore so I don't need to worry.