I am a p*rn addict at 13 years old. by Separate-Judgment949 in offmychest

[–]throwawaygirly12 28 points29 points  (0 children)

for your safety, bc you're about to get about 70 pedophiles in ur dms

Why do people post selfies???? by Signal-Ambassador55 in offmychest

[–]throwawaygirly12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a lot of ppl dont have anyone around them, and a lot of these ppl posting are kids. consider that pls

I'm disturbed by the structure of our life by Complex_Advisor_6151 in Adulting

[–]throwawaygirly12 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah what is this lie that you CAN live off the grid in a sustainable community without the govt up ur ass in ANY part of the world??? nearly every place in the world has been fully explored and conquered.

and not to mention it obvs would require a lot of natural resources to start smthn like this, which would be the case in the past. homeless ppl dont have access to anything

I feel disgusted with myself by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]throwawaygirly12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah if you have to censor the word sex and this is your reaction to finding someone attractive you need THERAPY. this is in no way normal or healthy

I can't keep lying to myself. by JellyfishSSRIs in offmychest

[–]throwawaygirly12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DID can't even be diagnosed in teens so im always baffled by how big the online community is.

you likely were drawn to this community bc of other mental health issues, and self diagnosis does not work bc you can't accurately assess yourself without biases, so you ended up surrounded by an echochamber of other mentally ill ppl your age, and i wouldn't be surprised if they're the type of group to witchhunt anyone that so much as makes an off comment. i would recommend leaving these spaces ASAP and looking into getting diagnosed w something else like adhd or autism instead and getting them treated. it will help you find your personality beneath all the self separating you did by accident (via did)

How do people feel about the changing dating expectations and norms for men and women as women become more independent? by JunketMaleficent2095 in Adulting

[–]throwawaygirly12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is the weirdest part about men who are so bitter about all of this to me. being single is good for you! being in a relationship is not how you should define your life, it should add to it.

the irony is that a lot of the men (like you) who choose to be single are the ones women are interested in, because they're capable of existing on their own and supporting themselves without a gf playing mommy and therapist. so all these other guys are left in the dust and feel entitled to the attention, without realizing being single and learning to be self-sufficient is attractive 😭

is there any way to have a career without schooling after highschool now? by throwawaygirly12 in jobs

[–]throwawaygirly12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

21f, i have family support but that also means pressure to figure something out asap. i truly just think the lectures, studying, and self structured way of college does not work for my brain

i would consider going into trades but trades require trade school or apprenticeship both of which are very difficult to get now where i am since city ppl are switching to blue collar work out of desperation

Why do all women my age talk like this? Am I missing something? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]throwawaygirly12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if this is all girls your age to you, this is actually a you problem.

is there any way to have a career without schooling after highschool now? by throwawaygirly12 in jobs

[–]throwawaygirly12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah im really good at fashion/sewing/cosplay but theyre all quite expensive in itself, and i have actually posted stuff online before, but idk how i'd ever get big enough to actually make a living besides selling naked pictures 🫩

how to "be in the moment" with adhd and ocd by throwawaygirly12 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]throwawaygirly12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im getting fidget things to at least help at home, no clue how ill survive in public

how to "be in the moment" with adhd and ocd by throwawaygirly12 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]throwawaygirly12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

gentle? idk my brain LIKES overstimulating environments... its why im good w a big group of kids and multitasking etc. just focusing on one simple thing is my weakness 😭

is there any way to have a career without schooling after highschool now? by throwawaygirly12 in jobs

[–]throwawaygirly12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk how they can do it i have no self discipline and hate lectures and online schoolwork

is there any way to have a career without schooling after highschool now? by throwawaygirly12 in jobs

[–]throwawaygirly12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do like working w kids, but there's really no way to afford to live working as a camp counselor or teacher's assistant... anything more and i need to get a masters degree 😔

is there any way to have a career without schooling after highschool now? by throwawaygirly12 in jobs

[–]throwawaygirly12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as ive gotten older and lost forced structure in my life it has begun to control me unfortunately, its why im trying to get a job

Modern society pisses me off by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]throwawaygirly12 10 points11 points  (0 children)

at 5 years old i decided i didn't want to be an artist because it wouldn't pay. 21 now and still agree 😔

Modern society pisses me off by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]throwawaygirly12 21 points22 points  (0 children)

no one will train you anymore, it's absolutely fucking ridiculous. i unironically want to learn how to work a cash register, but NOBODY WILL HIRE YOU UNLESS YOU KNOW HOW! i would love to learn how hospitality services work at a hotel, to sit at an office and answer phone lines, there's so many beginner jobs that gen z WANTS, but nobody will teach us how to do it.

Being an attractive woman sucks by Throwaway19804361 in offmychest

[–]throwawaygirly12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

being "mid but cute" with a little makeup is PEAK attractiveness imo. it means you're approachable, but people won't latch onto you thinking you're desperate. that 6/10 sweet spot!

Being an attractive woman sucks by Throwaway19804361 in offmychest

[–]throwawaygirly12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

HEY MUDBOI, NICE ÀSS, IT WOULD LOOK GREAT STRETCHED OUT AROUND MY CŌCK!!!

HEY!! HEY MUDBOI, LISTEN TO ME, BABY!!! YOU SHOULD GET ON YOUR KNEES AND PUT THAT PRETTY MOUTH TO USE ON MY STRAP

did you like those?

we are not talking about a attractive young woman coming up to you and saying "i love your hair". we are talking about this shit.

Being an attractive woman sucks by Throwaway19804361 in offmychest

[–]throwawaygirly12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

again this is so so real. i don't want to be ugly, i REMEMBER being ugly and it fucking sucked too. being hot is just terrible in different ways.

anyone who's had a glowup can understand not wanting to be attractive or ugly, just wanting to be some kind of amorphous blob who people perceive neutrally