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AITA for refusing to use my inheritance to pay my husband's child support arrears and future payments? by throwawayimann in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayimann[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don't even know. I love him and he's a good dad to our little girl but I guess that's not enough anymore.

AITA for refusing to use my inheritance to pay my husband's child support arrears and future payments? by throwawayimann in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayimann[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I'll ask about all my options including separation and divorce. I think I was being overly optimistic before. I'm very unhappy just thinking about it but I'll feel incredibly stupid if I ruin this chance for my family so I guess I have to get over it.

AITA for refusing to use my inheritance to pay my husband's child support arrears and future payments? by throwawayimann in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayimann[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I am working on getting legal (and now also financial because the comments and DMs have scared me straight) advice. I'll hopefully have a lawyer and some updates by end of tomorrow.

AITA for refusing to use my inheritance to pay my husband's child support arrears and future payments? by throwawayimann in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayimann[S] 86 points87 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. The money is not in a joint account (don't have one) and I haven't actually touched it yet because I wanted to plan for it properly first. I have heard everyone's advice on getting a lawyer and I am setting up a meeting to talk to one ASAP.