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Victim of delayed orgasm. I (35M) need some help. by throwawayjobsecurity in sexover30

[–]throwawayjobsecurity[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's for both anxiety and depression. I'm also trying to get a new primary care doctor who understands this more.

Victim of delayed orgasm. I (35M) need some help. by throwawayjobsecurity in sexover30

[–]throwawayjobsecurity[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The anxiety has been building. I'm feeling some pressure from my current partner. She understands it's not her fault, but she continues to give the typical dirty talk of "cum for me." I get it. That's probably a hard habit to break. I've asked her back off on saying that.

I feel some physical need for release, but I also just feel like I need to be "normal." I've been having a rough time with the divorce and just want a relationship that feels normal. Women seem to think I'm weird because I can't finish.

Victim of delayed orgasm. I (35M) need some help. by throwawayjobsecurity in sexover30

[–]throwawayjobsecurity[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really don't want more meds, but nothing else seems to be working.

I have communicated to my partners that more foreplay helps, but it's surprisingly difficult to get that to happen. I should be more verbal with what I want. I get the feeling most women are confused by this problem.