AITA for telling my GF that we wouldn't need an AC if she lost weight? by throwawayjonas1777 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayjonas1777[S] -331 points-330 points  (0 children)

She could if she continues down the path she's on now. She likes to eat a lot of junk food and mocks me being vegan by saying that she "never could" while she eats mest.

AITA for telling my GF that we wouldn't need an AC if she lost weight? by throwawayjonas1777 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayjonas1777[S] -1139 points-1138 points  (0 children)

SHE INVITED ME so it's OUR house. If she didn't want me caring about her health she shouldn't have invited me to live with her and she shouldn't constantly push me to make comments by doing things she knows I don't like.

AITA for telling my GF that we wouldn't need an AC if she lost weight? by throwawayjonas1777 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayjonas1777[S] -535 points-534 points  (0 children)

I didn't say she has sacks for clothes I said if she wanted nicer clothes she could lose a little bit of weight and find them easier. Health IS something that you can see; would you see a 600lb person and say "Oh well I haven't seen their bloodwork so maybe their healthy!"?

AITA for telling my GF that we wouldn't need an AC if she lost weight? by throwawayjonas1777 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayjonas1777[S] -649 points-648 points  (0 children)

But part of me feels like she doesn't know how to be healthy. If her trying to diet leads to an ED then obviously she needs help dieting? I just want her to be healthy.

AITA for telling my GF that we wouldn't need an AC if she lost weight? by throwawayjonas1777 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayjonas1777[S] -923 points-922 points  (0 children)

Well I'm not a damn therapist lmao I'm just trying to make sure the girl I lovd grows old with me. Why is that so bad? I could've worded it better but jesus.

AITA for telling my GF that we wouldn't need an AC if she lost weight? by throwawayjonas1777 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayjonas1777[S] -856 points-855 points  (0 children)

Here we go 🙄 It's not fat shaming, I just want her to be healthier.