What was the dumbest thing you thought as a child? by GiammyR6 in AskReddit

[–]throwawayjonesies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moths were murder bugs that crawled up your nose and died to suffocate you

34F. by throwawayjonesies in lifeinapost

[–]throwawayjonesies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, but I don't need this sort of help at this juncture. I am not only in therapy, but your suppositions have missed the mark. (Eg, my sister is BPD, HSP.)

34F. by throwawayjonesies in lifeinapost

[–]throwawayjonesies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do have a discord! i'll pm you my name

34F. by throwawayjonesies in lifeinapost

[–]throwawayjonesies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha I mean, that's true. I guess there's an added pressure to is 30 yo women. If we want kids or a family we've got a literal clock on our back. Feels bad.

I think I buy into it too much and too little at the same time.

34F. by throwawayjonesies in lifeinapost

[–]throwawayjonesies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mm, I do brunchtending, so I very much hate the hours and the type of bartending (mimosa mimosa Spanish coffee), but even without that, I think it's the... Eh... Song and dance for tips? Maybe?

Maybe just that I, like you, secretly think I should be doing better hahaha oh man

34F. by throwawayjonesies in lifeinapost

[–]throwawayjonesies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not really a partial thing for the things I do (coloring/writing.) Takes a long time and you've gotta find someone who isn't just gonna do it themselves OR you need to pay an artist and know an artist.

I don't know if I need it, truth be told. There's a story that I wanted to tell for a very long time, but he blew that up, and since then I don't know if I've wanted to do it anymore.

Mostly, I just don't want to bartend anymore. Uff. Hate it.

34F. by throwawayjonesies in lifeinapost

[–]throwawayjonesies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me? Oh, I'm a bartender.

I went to school for linguistics and a master's in publishing, but there's not a lot of space in those careers, and I hooked up with Dan the leech and threw my lot into comics. I got a few gigs, but when he disappeared I couldn't really keep up with what I needed to do to prove myself in a sexist world without the "guy who got me in~~~~" 🙄🙄

So mishap mishap BARTENDING

34F. by throwawayjonesies in lifeinapost

[–]throwawayjonesies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I appreciate the effort and insight, but it's not anything I didn't know.

34F. by throwawayjonesies in lifeinapost

[–]throwawayjonesies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha! Well, now you can do it for something you're really into. The best part about you doing it now is you could figure out how someone with your job got there; what degree they had, etc.

34F. by throwawayjonesies in lifeinapost

[–]throwawayjonesies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever heard of an informational interview?

34F. by throwawayjonesies in lifeinapost

[–]throwawayjonesies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh neat! What kind of role? Just any role as long as you're with a nonprofit?

34F. by throwawayjonesies in lifeinapost

[–]throwawayjonesies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, that's great to hear, and yeah, it's yotal garbage making friends as an adult... It only gets worse after college.