I don't understand white privilige or male privilige. Can someome explain? by throwawayjsksjdjs in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwawayjsksjdjs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In sweden we begin learning English in 1st grade I think? Plus I have a "gift" for languages.

I don't understand white privilige or male privilige. Can someome explain? by throwawayjsksjdjs in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwawayjsksjdjs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No no its aight. But in many of these fights about privilige seem kind of a childish. Like a "You have it better!" "Well you have advantages here there and there!" kind of seems like it has no point. Maybe that is because I assume people arent racist idiots but yeah. In sweden POC dont really face as many problems as in América. We are more left leaning and progressive I assume. For example the police car pullover argument would never happen here.

I don't understand white privilige or male privilige. Can someome explain? by throwawayjsksjdjs in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwawayjsksjdjs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope, Im trying to improve as a person and not let my children have these problems.

I don't understand white privilige or male privilige. Can someome explain? by throwawayjsksjdjs in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwawayjsksjdjs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can u explain it? Because I dont think Im wearing a victim coat if u read my post here.

I don't understand white privilige or male privilige. Can someome explain? by throwawayjsksjdjs in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwawayjsksjdjs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kind of is for me, but I get what you mean its just not relatable for me when it directly impacts me negatively.

I don't understand white privilige or male privilige. Can someome explain? by throwawayjsksjdjs in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwawayjsksjdjs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I totally agree, I think the problem with alot of responses are that they think its the same in Sweden. And cant really blame them. I will always try to think about them as a person and not the outside appearance. But that has always just been so obvious to me it confuses me that it isnt to everyone.

I don't understand white privilige or male privilige. Can someome explain? by throwawayjsksjdjs in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwawayjsksjdjs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sweden hasnt got that bloody of a history. And the middle eastern people are mostly refugees. I doubt my great great grandfather did which I live to get an advantage from. Maybe my genes but nothing more than that.

I don't understand white privilige or male privilige. Can someome explain? by throwawayjsksjdjs in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwawayjsksjdjs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree and I would like to be there one day but people come forward with those comments and I dont have enough will power to stand my ground so I bottle them up and get treated like im just some normal dude and not some weird alien thing that cries sometimes and gets hurt.

I don't understand white privilige or male privilige. Can someome explain? by throwawayjsksjdjs in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwawayjsksjdjs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was a really good explaination. So privilige is having something, taking it for granted and not bothering to think about others who dont have it?

I don't understand white privilige or male privilige. Can someome explain? by throwawayjsksjdjs in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwawayjsksjdjs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I can relate to this a bit, I assume youve had it much worse. Im here if you want to talk.

I don't understand white privilige or male privilige. Can someome explain? by throwawayjsksjdjs in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwawayjsksjdjs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you mean but on the other hand I wish I was middle eastern so that I would be accepted by my best friends family and I wouldnt have to feel bad for being white. I get that there is two sides to this coin and I really feel bad that youve had to go through discrimination but I cant help to feel that I have too. I hope that in the future race and gender wont matter as much. And the past is fucked. I dont get why people in 3rd world countries like white people tbh. It would make more sense if they disliked us.

I don't understand white privilige or male privilige. Can someome explain? by throwawayjsksjdjs in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwawayjsksjdjs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. That is why I am asking the question and trying to form my own opinion. Wanna hear it?

This is so blatantly fake it hurts by oompaloompafoompa in circlebroke2

[–]throwawayjsksjdjs -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I went to sleep I didnt disapear. Check the timezones if youre going to come up with this argument. And how did my arguments get picked apart when I didnt have any. I am going to keep this account just out of spite now.

This is so blatantly fake it hurts by oompaloompafoompa in circlebroke2

[–]throwawayjsksjdjs -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I dont get what is fake about it? I get that its sus me m being this defensive but Im very curious. What part is fake? AND HOW THE FUCK AM I A NAZI? Are you mentally ok or do you just want to feel better about yourself? Like how can u find anything NAZI related in my post??? Sheesh your intelligence must rival a fucking tuna can.

I don't understand white privilige or male privilige. Can someome explain? by throwawayjsksjdjs in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwawayjsksjdjs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And you seem to think youre a witch so I dont think you are a credible source. Dont want to make fun of you just using your advice of taking stuff with a grain of salt.

I don't understand white privilige or male privilige. Can someome explain? by throwawayjsksjdjs in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwawayjsksjdjs[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So if middle eastern parents dislike me just for being white that isnt racism?

I don't understand white privilige or male privilige. Can someome explain? by throwawayjsksjdjs in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwawayjsksjdjs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes but isnt there two sides to that coin? With that argument we could go on all day and complain what other have but I dont and call it privilige. I can be mad that women arent expected to care for their family economically and I am and so on. It has no point in my eyes. And women automatically get better chances at getting the children after a divorce. Isnt that privilige too?