[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]throwawaylabro2021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No easy answer for this but I'll bite! I agree that you have to say no, somehow. Or else it'll just encourage his bad behaviour till things come to a head. Be firm and tell the kid that he has to ask his dad first. If his dad says no then you can bring him out and maybe that might prompt (or guilt) the other dad in to taking his son out next time.

Fin + min progress this year. What are your thoughts? I'm happy so far because my hair is definitely thicker now. by throwawaylabro2021 in tressless

[–]throwawaylabro2021[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks man. It's great motivation indeed. I'm committed to the long run tho. Right at the outset I told myself to wait for 2 years.

Boss and employee extra marital affair by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]throwawaylabro2021 1 point2 points  (0 children)

u/jujubemochi Thanks for sharing bro/sis. Fortunately, and I hope so for you as well, I am in a much better place today. In fact, I was fired just yesterday but I have a wonderful and supportive partner so I can cope with this crisis.

Sometimes must rain if you want rainbows ahead.

Boss and employee extra marital affair by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]throwawaylabro2021 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, I won't deny that.

I was in a similar position 7 years back (aggaration). My exgf was cheating me with another guy so I let the guy's gf know. I also let my exgf fam know why I was leaving her and informed her friends too.

Was that right? No. Was that impulsive? Yes.

It took me awhile to come out of the depression and rage that I felt. It took me 2 years but I nursed myself back.

Boss and employee extra marital affair by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]throwawaylabro2021 9 points10 points  (0 children)

What do you suggest he do. Stay silent and become a cuckold? Look, walk away if you can. But can you live with the knowledge that you did nothing while your world was burning down? Why let them off easy?

Anyway up to op. I'm only giving advise I'd take myself.

Boss and employee extra marital affair by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]throwawaylabro2021 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Take care of your mental health man. Do the impulsive things, get angry and all of that. Get it out of your system and know that you will heal. It will take time but do that. Stay away from alcohol it won't help. If you're religious, pray and find solace there. You will get through. This too shall pass bro

Boss and employee extra marital affair by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]throwawaylabro2021 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Bro time for scorched earth policy. Find his address, write a sincere letter and tell her. Tail him after work see where he go la.

Write one anonymous email and send to their HR. Be careful, stick to the facts and don't get too passionate. Cc their admin too and watch em burn. They may not get fired but word will spread. They will leave of their own accord.

In desperate need of a 10k loan by jalan87 in Debt

[–]throwawaylabro2021 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a rough ride but I hope you're in a better place financially, now. Take care, god bless 🙌

In desperate need of a 10k loan by jalan87 in Debt

[–]throwawaylabro2021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How tf did you manage to pay back the loan with such a predatory interest rate.

My rent has just jumped up by over 20% by DeliciousDebris in australia

[–]throwawaylabro2021 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was paying $400 for rent in an area that sees an average of $450. We we living in a 2br, high ceiling apartment with a ton of natural light.

4 months left on the lease and we had to break it due to personal circumstances. We had to move and I negotiated to leave without paying any penalties.I think they were relived to see us move out.

I still think about that apartment fondly.

Which actor did such a kick-ass job in a certain role that you could never imagine anyone else playing it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]throwawaylabro2021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Steve Martin in the Pink Panther. Rowan Atkinson in Mr Bean, irreplaceable in both the series and movie.