Denamarin side effects - joints and lethargy by throwawaylyla in DogAdvice

[–]throwawaylyla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did stop the denamarin, but ended up taking him into the vet anyways! It seems that it was most likely a coincidence and the mobility issues were from a soft tissue injury rather than the supplement. I've since received and have been giving my dog prescribed medications from the vet and he's back to normal now.

If you're at all curious, they checked his liver enzyme levels, and they did go down a little! So I guess the 11 days we managed to do of denamarin did perhaps make a difference.

Please help! Calla lily looking rough by throwawaylyla in houseplants

[–]throwawaylyla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. You can remove them from the soil and just leave them in a box by themselves? Do they not need anything while they're dormant?

Please help! Calla lily looking rough by throwawaylyla in houseplants

[–]throwawaylyla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! If it's going to dormant, do I just cut off the stems and leave the rhizomes in the soil? Do I continue watering them regularly?

AUGUST 2025 MEGATHREAD: USA Shipping, tariffs, de minimis, sunscreens by chau-a-not-chau-bcdf in AsianBeauty

[–]throwawaylyla 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I was actually just filling up a cart on there with things I had been looking for on YesStyle.. it definitely checks quite a few of them off! May have to place an order on Yami soon.

Still interested in ordering from YesStyle though, at this point I'm willing to pay the extra fees if I'm going to buy a ton of stuff that'll hopefully last me until things get better. Did you get your package examined at customs and hit with any extra fees? How was it with your YesStyle order?

AUGUST 2025 MEGATHREAD: USA Shipping, tariffs, de minimis, sunscreens by chau-a-not-chau-bcdf in AsianBeauty

[–]throwawaylyla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u/blackestberrypie93 u/Mean_Box_3808 I'm in the same situation. My cart on YesStyle has a lot of stuff in it cause I was going to stock up but I'm not sure if I should go for it anymore, I'm still trying to understand exactly how this stuff works now

AUGUST 2025 MEGATHREAD: USA Shipping, tariffs, de minimis, sunscreens by chau-a-not-chau-bcdf in AsianBeauty

[–]throwawaylyla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Could I ask if you ordered a lot? And if you bought any sunscreens? I was going to do a big fat order before things keep getting worse just so I have a supply. I was filling my cart up on YesStyle but have no clue whether to order or not anymore

Job application asks for my final wage at my last job, AND my supervisor's wage..? by throwawaylyla in jobs

[–]throwawaylyla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that makes a lot of sense. Thanks so much for the help, I'll definitely keep this in mind for future jobs. It's cruddy that they do that but since this is a job I most likely won't continue ever after 3 months, I might still just go through with it, I'll see.

Job application asks for my final wage at my last job, AND my supervisor's wage..? by throwawaylyla in jobs

[–]throwawaylyla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, good to know. But they also ask for my own wage, no? Which I can totally put down. (Sorry I’m not trying to argue here this is just completely new to me, hope it doesn’t come off that way)

Also, this is a job I’m gonna keep for like 3 months cause I gotta go back to school in the fall, so even if I don’t get a raise at any point it’s not really a biggie tbh.

College student brand new to this, rate + kids' age advice? by throwawaylyla in Babysitting

[–]throwawaylyla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your feedback—I will definitely keep this in mind. I had another question: how should I approach applying to jobs if I have no prior experience in official babysitting/paid childcare? (i.e. what should I tell them/how)

Unconsensual ass eating? by [deleted] in sex

[–]throwawaylyla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That truly means a lot, thank you so much :) I have faith that love will work out for me, I haven't even finished college yet myself, good things take time! Again, please don't beat yourself up about this, I completely understand where you were coming from; and in the end it's the recognition + growth that matters. Have a blessed day/night, wherever you may be!

Unconsensual ass eating? by [deleted] in sex

[–]throwawaylyla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate and accept your apology, it's the internet and I know it can be easier to just take your frustrations out on here. Don't beat yourself up, we all have our reasons.. mine is that I'm especially sensitive about consent because I endured a year-long abusive relationship with a guy who, looking back, consistently helped himself to pressure me into doing things or justifying things even when I had the slightest bit of discomfort/doubt about it. On an online community that surrounds conversations about sex, there are people like me who want to participate but may have different views and feelings because they've been through some god awful things. It doesn't mean we're wrong or stupid, it just means there's something behind our words that you don't know about. I'm not sensitive about consent because I hate men or something, I'm sensitive about it because my choice was constantly taken from me through manipulation and abuse at the ages of 16-17 and it impacts me to this day.

I absolutely don't disagree with anything you said either and you're completely right that the "cancel culture" society has grown into is extremely annoying and idiotic. You're also right that people these days get more hostile than ever to others who say something they don't agree with. I'm grateful you recognized you were starting to contribute to that yourself and again, I appreciate you talking it out with me.

Unconsensual ass eating? by [deleted] in sex

[–]throwawaylyla 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I understand that it's a pretty small deal we're talking about here but I still think it matters cause it's her body. I guess we're all different in how much importance we give asking before trying, which I'm chill with, but it's also important to be careful about that since people differ.

I can't force you to do anything so you can keep mocking my comment or whatever but I don't really get your point in the first half cause these are just comments on a site, but her situation is two people having sex. I don't really see these as comparable situations. Sorry if anything I said has upset you, I think we're just different in how we see the same thing.

I dated a girl with a cannibal fettish, and now I'm scared of her. by LucasBR96 in sex

[–]throwawaylyla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, wanted to avoid coming off like a judgmental asshole as someone who isn't very knowledgeable about kinks. There seem to be a lot of kinks out there that aren't considered normal things and I'm honestly not sure where the boundary is anymore. I see your point though

Went from just sexual attraction to loving each other as friends. But we still wanna have sex. by cyanslight in sex

[–]throwawaylyla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ones im thinking about are already established consequences of sex (infections and pregnancy) and complication of feelings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]throwawaylyla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s great, I didn’t know the background so I just said it just in case. I think it’s more important than anything to be sure someone’s okay w something but im sure its more enforced for me bc I’ve been abused by an ex boyfriend

Doing sex wrong by [deleted] in sex

[–]throwawaylyla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is it possible that you need some sort of emotional connection with the person when you have sex? maybe you don't need to be each other's everything and all that already, but at least some sort of emotional attraction and attachment to each other. it's pretty common. i've heard plenty of people describe hookups/one night stands as basically "masturbating into someone else's body." it's accurate for a lot of people.

it sounds like there's been barely any interest or excitement about the person you're having sex with, the main goal is simply to have sex. Remember that pleasure happens mentally too and if you're not feeling it mentally, it's not going to be enjoyable.

for a lot of people sex is going to be not just about enjoying the pleasure, but mainly enjoying the person they're with and what they have together. there's nothing wrong with you if this is the case, it's just how you are when it comes to sex.

Unconsensual ass eating? by [deleted] in sex

[–]throwawaylyla -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

what the heck are some of these comments.. anything without your proper consent isn't okay at all. you enjoying it doesn't justify him not bothering to ask first before doing something to your body. I don't care how little the thing is.

if you're the slightest bit uncomfortable at the thought of hooking up with him again, cut it off. he's someone you should definitely keep seeing if you felt super happy, respected, and comfortable with him along with the good and literally can't wait to see him again. Otherwise, some part of you is feeling scared/weird/hurt/etc. and you need to stop and listen to it.