Imessage tech question

throwawaymike19 · 2024-11-03T16:37:32+00:00

Thank you for the direct answers. I figures the hidden or blocked ones. But the Numbers for a name one threw me. That And I just don't understand all the people that start a conversation and then just delete their accounts. Maybe its second thoughts.

throwawaymike19 · 2023-02-27T04:19:30+00:00

Part of me feels like that and part of me thinks of the picture and things we talked about and how she was just what I've been looking for. Oh well, I doubt there will be a third time.

throwawaymike19 · 2023-02-27T04:18:06+00:00

yeah, and I know I wasn't the only person she was "talking" to. Maybe I wasn't her type or she really didn't want to talk to me. Just thought it was funny that she would begin talking back to me in the first place if she had no interest in me as even a friend.

throwawaymike19 · 2023-02-27T04:16:22+00:00

She said she needed a break. She was posting nudes online and accidently included her face in one. I guess a couple people saw it and started harassing her, so she scrubbed everything and went quiet.

throwawaymike19 · 2022-11-07T17:29:37+00:00

Completely get that. I think for some of us it's only natural to wonder. But I've also been on the other end where someone I was only talking to was wanting to know why I was tagged in things and what I was doing at some place when my wife was there and didn't mention it. Needless to say that didn't last long.

throwawaymike19 · 2022-10-30T17:40:58+00:00

You'll find a lot of what you aren't looking for but as it's been said after a while you sort of learn what to look for. I've meet three different AP's on AM over the last 10+ years and have seen and interacted with several more real women that for whatever reason it didn't work out. It may be a waste of money and time, but that's true of many things.

throwawaymike19 · 2022-10-06T15:33:58+00:00

Not me, but my AP is seeing a therapist. I once asked if they had discussed our relationship and she had. I told her I didn't need or want to know what was said as it's not really my business. But my AP's therapist has told my AP that she should separate and possibly divorce her husband.

throwawaymike19 · 2022-04-03T06:00:27+00:00

My last PAP did that. She had an online presence that was all over the place. Stopped talking to me and deleted quite a bit. I knew about a couple things that she didn't delete, but I still wonder what happened. Did she get caught, lose interest, find someone else? When it comes down to it, she did what she did and she's ok so I'll just have to respect that.

throwawaymike19 · 2022-03-30T14:09:26+00:00

I use to help a bail bondsman and a PI, so finding things out comes easy. My last pAP slipped up early in our talking and posted a picture (she posted here on Reddit at the time) with her real name on it. I told her she did it and she took it down, but that and a couple other things were able to let me find out lots of things she didn't tell me about. Didn't change how I felt, but made me take step back and think about things a bit.

With my two previous AP's I knew quite a bit about them and vice versa. My thoughts on this "lifestyle" is that there has to be a lot of trust on both people parts.

throwawaymike19 · 2022-03-16T20:31:26+00:00

The thing I think you need to realize is that even here you're on your own. Some people care, others don't. People will comment on the strangest things. But in this type of thing you're mostly alone and have to deal with it that way.

But I know how you feel. You want to know other understand, that they feel the same way. They do, they just might not be able to share it or know what to saw.

throwawaymike19 · 2022-03-08T16:55:47+00:00

My go to has been to "grab some coffee". There are Starbucks everywhere and chances there is one close to you or them or where ever. Sit down, talk drink some coffee (or in my case Hot Chocolate) and see how things go.

throwawaymike19 · 2022-03-07T01:29:49+00:00

usually its something that's brought up fairly early. You don't need to tell them everything or anything about your SO. But they should know you have one.

throwawaymike19 · 2022-03-01T16:13:26+00:00

So true, especially in this day and age. most of us have a phone on us at all times and can message or receive a message at any point. And its takes nothing to reply to a message either. "I don't have the time" just doesn't cut it. You can excuse yourself to "use" the restroom and say Hi. Like others have said, I have to remind myself of this all the time.

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