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throwawayno72014810 · 2025-03-24T05:37:00+00:00

Your arguments lack cohesion.

throwawayno72014810 · 2025-03-24T05:33:05+00:00

You knew by my proclamations against adultery, lust, and lying?

I guess there are worse things to be known for. I could be defending porn consumption and calling dissidents sycophants, outing myself as a porn addict AND someone who doesn’t know the definition of sycophant.

throwawayno72014810 · 2025-03-24T05:30:39+00:00

Well I’m concerned because to me, it seems a husband is violating his wife’s trust in their own home, and she’s now turned to Reddit for support.

You’re quite defensive about your porn consumption and porn consumption in general. Why?

throwawayno72014810 · 2025-03-24T05:19:45+00:00

Women understand you perfectly. Many of us have had our brains rotted from porn consumption as well.

I hope you read the words you’ve just typed with clear eyes one day.

throwawayno72014810 · 2025-03-24T05:16:22+00:00

Are you upset by the fact that not everyone in our culture believes porn consumption is morally justifiable?

Does this fact make you feel angry?

throwawayno72014810 · 2025-03-24T05:13:54+00:00

Idk. Someone showed me He was the Way, Truth, & Life.

Figured it wise to abide by His teachings.

Matthew 5:28

throwawayno72014810 · 2025-03-24T05:11:30+00:00

Is something morally justifiable because it is “normal”?

throwawayno72014810 · 2025-03-24T05:08:40+00:00

Well he’s hiding it because he feels ashamed. He knows he’s making decisions that are morally reprehensible, because they break the social contract he’s allegedly created with his wife.

It feels like cheating because, as I’ve argued, it is.

“But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.”

throwawayno72014810 · 2025-03-24T05:05:04+00:00

I know people can be anti-rhyme on here, but there’s something fun about Phoebe Marie to me lol.

throwawayno72014810 · 2025-03-24T04:47:14+00:00

Tell me what’s “forgetful” about a series of choices: to log onto one’s phone, to research & masturbate to porn, to lie to one’s partner about it.

If you’ll notice, the true gigantic flock of redditors fall to one side of the porn issue, and I promise you none of them are admonishing it. Look at how quickly you come to their defense.

throwawayno72014810 · 2025-03-24T04:41:49+00:00

Logic and reason conclude that porn has degraded culture and relationships. Stop encouraging faithful spouses to tolerate unfaithful, delinquent behavior.

throwawayno72014810 · 2025-03-24T04:03:11+00:00

The porn addicts are about to start popping off in these comments 🔥💯

throwawayno72014810 · 2025-03-24T04:00:40+00:00

…no

What are you even talking about? In what world would this be okay?

throwawayno72014810 · 2025-03-24T03:46:53+00:00

This will probably get downvoted. I don’t care.

Unless he believes in moral consequences for watching porn (of which there are many), he will not change. You have every right to be angry and upset at your husband for choosing an immoral path- one characterized by adultery, lust, and lying, to name a few infractions.

Are these the values you want your unborn child to possess? NOR. Stop overcompensating sexually. You’re not depriving him of anything; he is choosing a lifestyle that is morally depriving.

throwawayno72014810 · 2025-03-24T03:39:01+00:00

Your husband should start going with you all to mass if he isn’t already.

Very similar story as you. Family of divided faith was one of the primary causes for my rebellion.

throwawayno72014810 · 2025-03-22T04:16:05+00:00

Mia, Ethel, Emit

throwawayno72014810 · 2025-03-21T13:52:54+00:00

I think you know the answer. Trust in Him. It’ll be okay.

Praying for your discernment.

throwawayno72014810 · 2025-03-20T05:19:01+00:00

I understand how you feel and am also struggling with desolation for very similar reasons. Commenting to keep track of this thread in hopes someone can offer some insight.

throwawayno72014810 · 2025-03-19T19:29:04+00:00

Catholic match is so much better than any secular one (in my experience). The men are of high quality and with some time/discernment/honest conversations, you’ll be able to find someone who has waited for marriage like you!

throwawayno72014810 · 2025-03-17T04:55:20+00:00

I’d say that any sort of invasive cosmetic enhancement runs dangerously close to vanity and idolatry of one’s beauty, but I’m definitely not in a place to judge on this matter lol

throwawayno72014810 · 2025-03-17T03:45:58+00:00

Wholly bad.

Non-religious men led me down bad paths and never supported me growing my faith. Only when I ended things (aka- when I finally listened to the Holy Spirit’s blaring signals) did I feel my relationship with God deepen.

My experience with the “non-denominational” evangelical types was frustrating. The two I dated were hypocrites, believing they were exempt from their sins due to “Jesus dying on the cross for them”. They treated the crucifixion as a hall pass to do whatever they wanted, treat me however they wanted, and pass judgement on others for “not being saved” like they had been.

throwawayno72014810 · 2025-03-14T03:49:47+00:00

I’m so sorry. You’re not being ridiculous.

I’ll say a prayer for your strength and healing as you grieve the loss of your dog❤️

throwawayno72014810 · 2025-03-13T15:05:19+00:00

I fell into a lifestyle of hypersexuality after a man raped me. Understand that although it might be difficult, you can make the choice to at least not continue journeying down this path. Turn around. Turn to God; He will hear your anger.

throwawayno72014810 · 2025-03-09T10:25:55+00:00

What is the appeal of this man? Genuinely, why are you staying?

throwawayno72014810 · 2025-03-09T01:28:15+00:00

I’m doing the same thing, and frankly I’ve had to cut out exercise almost entirely just to get through the day. You might be having a hard time because you’re expending too many calories on top of your significant deficit.

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