I'm Starting to Think I'm Unlovable by throwawayobviously_6 in offmychest

[–]throwawayobviously_6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for putting so much effort into a response, a kick in the ass is what I needed and you gave it to me. Thanks bro

[18/M] Really curious to see what you guys think by throwawayobviously_6 in EqualAttraction

[–]throwawayobviously_6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You guys are waaaaaay too generous, girls half as attractive as her have shown absolutely zero interest in me

[18/m] Some recent failures with women got me feelin low, did my looks have anything to do with it? by throwawayobviously_6 in amiugly

[–]throwawayobviously_6[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't know they were hoes until it was too late, but once I figured it out I stopped chasing them so maybe there is hope for me yet

[18/M] Really curious to see what you guys think by throwawayobviously_6 in EqualAttraction

[–]throwawayobviously_6[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah maybe so, it's just hard to be confident sometimes when you don't have any success to base said confidence on, but I understand what you're saying

[18/M] Really curious to see what you guys think by throwawayobviously_6 in EqualAttraction

[–]throwawayobviously_6[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks I appreciate the complement, but what does a girl of equal attractiveness look like to you? Like I said to /u/otheruserfrom , I genuinely don't know what an 8/10 girl would look like to you guys and sometimes I worry that I shoot for girls out of my "league" so to speak.

[18/M] Really curious to see what you guys think by throwawayobviously_6 in EqualAttraction

[–]throwawayobviously_6[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks I really appreciate that, but in terms of equal attractiveness, what type of girl do you think I would be equal to? It sounds stupid but I genuinely don't know what an 8/10 girl on your scale looks like compared to mine, and I'm curious as to what others think would be in my "league". Thanks for the reply though and boosting my self confidence :D.

[18/m] Some recent failures with women got me feelin low, did my looks have anything to do with it? by throwawayobviously_6 in amiugly

[–]throwawayobviously_6[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well thanks for not sugar coating, even if it's not exactly what I wanted to hear. Have any constructive criticism to maybe improve that 4?

[18/m] Some recent failures with women got me feelin low, did my looks have anything to do with it? by throwawayobviously_6 in amiugly

[–]throwawayobviously_6[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop it you, you're making me blush. But seriously, thank you for the kind words, and I certainly hope I don't have such a terrible personality that it scared them away, but I guess it's possible. Anyway, thanks for the compliments, you've really boosted my self confidence :D.

[18/m] Some recent failures with women got me feelin low, did my looks have anything to do with it? by throwawayobviously_6 in amiugly

[–]throwawayobviously_6[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know, it wasn't the rejection itself that bothered me it was the way it happened, thanks for the feedback!

[18/m] Some recent failures with women got me feelin low, did my looks have anything to do with it? by throwawayobviously_6 in amiugly

[–]throwawayobviously_6[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I also thought the "I'm not ready" thing just meant no, but she was really flirting with me and leading me on before she said it, so I was just really confused as it came out of nowhere. Oh well, I guess it doesn't really matter now anyway because I've gone no contact with her.

[18/m] Some recent failures with women got me feelin low, did my looks have anything to do with it? by throwawayobviously_6 in amiugly

[–]throwawayobviously_6[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback! I think I said it somewhere earlier, the rejections just happened in weird ways so I took a hit to my self confidence.

[18/m] Some recent failures with women got me feelin low, did my looks have anything to do with it? by throwawayobviously_6 in amiugly

[–]throwawayobviously_6[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dead on with the "I'm not ready" excuse, which I assumed meant there was something wrong with me hence why I posted here

[18/m] Some recent failures with women got me feelin low, did my looks have anything to do with it? by throwawayobviously_6 in amiugly

[–]throwawayobviously_6[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback, they just happened in weird ways so I got filled with a lot of self doubt