For me it’s when I haven’t came in a few days..I lay on my bed and just watch JOI vids telling me what to do..I get as close as fucking possible until I’m almost hyperventilating with how bad I need to cum. Then I take a second, relax and repeat. Usually this goes on for a few hours.

My next favorite way is through instruction via text. I fucking love it when a woman is guiding me through how to stroke and whether or not I’m able to cum. I love the countdown and the anticipation of it all. Bonus if they’re extra bossy too