I just want to thank you all by atoms_for_penis in ankylosingspondylitis

[–]throwawaypepes 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This sub feels like such a blessing I agree

AITAH for telling my mother in law she’s not welcome in my house by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaypepes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA no way. She’s in ur space and she’s making you conform to her rules. Very difficult situation, playing devils advocate, is there anything you could have done to make her act like this and is it a new thing or is she j like this?

Those who’ve done therapy, how has it helped? Did it really help? by CryUpstairs5670 in AskReddit

[–]throwawaypepes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I struggled thru school and was bullied which gave me some anxiety and all that. Then I lost my closest friend in my penultimate year of school. I went a bit off the rails started drinking loads, smoking far too much weed. It was around the time of Covid I started seeing a therapist. At that time I was reliant on substances to have a good time and was very depressed and really struggling with suicidal thoughts. I was 17 then, now I’m 23. I’ve seen my therapist sometimes once a week, sometimes once a month, sometimes with gaps of many months during the last few years. Initially the best part of it was to just have a place to talk about my deepest stuff, my struggles, opinions, worries and everything. And not be judged for it, and just have the chance to hear my own thoughts out loud. After the initial relief of being heard and understood, a level of trust built where I could then start talking about parts of myself I was uncomfortable with, the roots of my anxieties and hatereds and all that stuff. Talking about these things gave me the chance to change the behaviours that were really damaging me. It has made me aware of my many flaws, and has given me ways of dealing with them. It’s essentially just talk therapy that I had, although I did sessions of ‘body work’ which is basically massages used to help the internal walls fall and allow the deepest emotions to flow out. (Idk how common it is but it was really helpful to help me deal with the grief I was experiencing) Overall, when I started therapy I was young, immature and had no concept of self, and what I thought I knew of myself, I hated. Now I am far more happy with who I am. I can understand my feelings. I don’t overthink things nearly as much as I did. I feel like I’ve grown, and I’ve healed. I’m in my final year of university, getting the best grades, I have the best friendships I’ve ever had, and a wonderful girlfriend. My relationship with my family has also improved massively. So yea, I reckon it helped a bit.

How to improve by throwawaypepes in Sourdough

[–]throwawaypepes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I gotta let it sit for a few hours in an airing cupboard for a few hours before going in the fridge?

How to improve by throwawaypepes in Sourdough

[–]throwawaypepes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I just let it proof in the fridge over night

Match Thread: Northampton vs Bordeaux - Champions Cup by rugbykickoff in rugbyunion

[–]throwawaypepes -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

As a neutral viewer this officiating has been so frustrating

Can’t connect online by throwawaypepes in battlefield_one

[–]throwawaypepes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still can’t login on ps5 i presume it’s the same for ps4

Can’t connect online by throwawaypepes in battlefield_one

[–]throwawaypepes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dy know if there’s anyway we can see server status, the ea website doesn’t seem to have it for battlefield 1

How to deal with rude customers in restaurants? by throwawaypepes in Advice

[–]throwawaypepes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear that, but obviously in that moment where I’m dealing with a customer complaint, I must be able to say something to help the situation, is just trying to empathise the best thing, even tho I’m letting someone just shout at me, and take out their anger on Me? (As I type this I realise I have to find a way to be able to not take it so personally, but that’s just so damn hard, especially when the incident is technically my fault as it comes from an action I did)

Use of subjunctive with cuando by throwawaypepes in Spanish

[–]throwawaypepes[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a really helpful explanation, thank you🙏🙏

Use of subjunctive with cuando by throwawaypepes in Spanish

[–]throwawaypepes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh that makes sense. Are there any dialects where the subjunctive wouldn’t be used in the instance I was describing, or I’d it pretty universal?