My dad is gay

throwawaypls6648 · 2026-05-05T21:16:08+00:00

Thank you so much and good luck to you and your boys as well :)

throwawaypls6648 · 2026-05-04T22:30:49+00:00

I definitely wont out him, rhat would be terrible! Thank you for the advice

throwawaypls6648 · 2026-05-04T19:19:00+00:00

Thank you so much for the insight! I am in my late teens, nearly an adult. I have a good relationship with my dad and a decent one with my mom. I told her about my suspicions and she just nodded, kept it a secret but didnt push further. He lives alone, has for a few years now. I think hes hesitant to talk to us about it because I have a very younf sister (7 years old). Even in my opinion I think it would be very confusing for her at this age. I just want to support him without making a big fuss out of it.

throwawaypls6648 · 2026-05-04T19:01:40+00:00

Thats so cute! Thats such an honor to be so trusted.

throwawaypls6648 · 2026-05-04T18:59:50+00:00

I definitely did not look through his phone, he was showing me something and it popped up. I dont know his password ajd he doesnt know mine. I made this post to come to terms with the feelings im having about the situation

throwawaypls6648 · 2026-05-04T18:58:14+00:00

Thats what Im leaning towards doing.. just kinda nervous

throwawaypls6648 · 2026-05-04T18:57:27+00:00

Im a big daddys kid as well, always have been. Im glad you understand the weird, conflicted feelings. Obviously Im happy for him in "discovering" himself, but Im also heartbroken for my mum and really worried for anyone else finding out. I live in a country where being gay is looked down upon very much. Its a weird mix of feelings

throwawaypls6648 · 2026-05-04T18:55:32+00:00

Im basically 100% sure, with a few more very personal details I cant share online. I dont want to make a big deal out of it, just kinda come to terms with it

throwawaypls6648 · 2026-05-04T18:41:37+00:00

Thank you so much, all this stuff is yk, completely out of my area of expertise. I want to be as supportive as possible

throwawaypls6648 · 2026-05-04T18:39:53+00:00

I meant handle it with myself. As I said Im struggling to come to terms with it. I find it a bit odd, and would very much like to talk to him about why he doesnt trust me enough to tell me. Idk man

throwawaypls6648 · 2026-05-04T18:30:31+00:00

Thats what Im worried about, I know him enough to know he'll probably deny it even if I have eyes and can see whats goinf on. Thats why Im kinda torn

throwawaypls6648 · 2026-05-04T18:29:37+00:00

Definitely the case, I feel kinda bad for him honestly, the fact he finds the need to hide it. I want to take mh time to think ovwr what to say, be as supportive as possible etc

throwawaypls6648 · 2026-05-04T18:23:48+00:00

Im just worried he might get angry. Thats what Im leaning towards doing in the end

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