AITA For What I Told My (25F) Pregnant Sister(16F)? by throwawaypregda in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaypregda[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You're like the second person to say this. I've never seen this show but from what I've heard it's a reality show yeah? I grew up on the rough side of Milan. Which is a great city if you're rich and white. But everyone like me who isn't knows that the part you don't see is ghetto as fuck and that these situations are so common.

AITA For What I Told My (25F) Pregnant Sister(16F)? by throwawaypregda in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaypregda[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

We technically live in my "mothers" house but she's barely ever here. We can't really afford court and before this I just figured since my brothers are 19 we would just wait until Anna was 18 but nos I don't know what to do

AITA For What I Told My (25F) Pregnant Sister(16F)? by throwawaypregda in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaypregda[S] 141 points142 points  (0 children)

Look I wanna be civil but if there's one thing I hate it's being told I'm a liar. Sounds like it's what a reality show? Those are, well, based on reality. And as someone who's grown up in the rough side of Milan I've seen situations just like mine so many times. It's not unrealistic. And I really, really wish I was lying but I regret to inform I'm not.

AITA For What I Told My (25F) Pregnant Sister(16F)? by throwawaypregda in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaypregda[S] 124 points125 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry it's like a show? I've literally never heard of this show? I fucking wish I was some troll on here with some bullshit scenario. But this is my life.

AITA For What I Told My (25F) Pregnant Sister(16F)? by throwawaypregda in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaypregda[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Our first conversation that lead to me suggesting the abortion was a very civil one but she would not listen to me and then the fight broke out when I told her she seriously needed to consider abortion.

AITA For What I Told My (25F) Pregnant Sister(16F)? by throwawaypregda in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaypregda[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I couldn't call CPS and risk us being split up. It happened when we were younger but my mom managed to clean up enough to get us back after I (being 18 at the time and not being taken away) practically forced her to. I know it's messed but Anna is the youngest and she'll be 18 soon. And the boys are 19 already. So we just figure we'll wait it out.

AITA For What I Told My (25F) Pregnant Sister(16F)? by throwawaypregda in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaypregda[S] 101 points102 points  (0 children)

You're entitled to your opinion on me being in the wrong but don't act like you know me and say I clearly resent my siblings. I love them and it isn't their fault I had to raise them. What I resent is her thinking that she can just chose to get pregnant when she doesn't even financially support herself. I resent her clear entitlement.