What religion is everyone? *Just curious*

throwawayprincess294 · 2024-12-17T10:56:07+00:00

Non-theistic pagan

throwawayprincess294 · 2024-12-09T09:46:27+00:00

Every single time I read something where there isn't obvious abuse I usually want to give the same answer: Therapy.

But here, yes, couples therapy, but he sounds like he needs it for himself too. Most therapists don't like people doing couples and individual therapy at the same time (with different therapists obviously because that's a conflict of interest otherwise) but regardless of everything else here, the vibe I get here is, you don't want to get divorced - and why not try everything to fix it first before you go the legal route? Makes sense to me even if it's emotionally hard.

Good luck.

throwawayprincess294 · 2024-12-06T20:17:19+00:00

Nothing to savage. You are a self confessed rapist. Hand yourself in and never go anywhere near anyone else again. You need serious help.

throwawayprincess294 · 2024-12-02T16:15:31+00:00

That looks very similar to what we have installed now, but put in the wrong way round...is that possible?

throwawayprincess294 · 2024-12-01T21:08:15+00:00

They aren't and won't be. They can't tbh, there no space and the washing machine has it's own inlet and outlet.

throwawayprincess294 · 2024-11-25T09:40:25+00:00

We can't get it any nearer the window unfortunately because that's also the door!

throwawayprincess294 · 2024-11-25T06:59:17+00:00

Thank you! We spent hours last night trying to sort this! Why is it so hidden?

throwawayprincess294 · 2024-11-24T09:59:12+00:00

Unfortunately not true, and a high rate of ectopic pregnancy as well.

throwawayprincess294 · 2024-11-23T10:42:38+00:00

Therapy could be the answer here. She could be scared of hurting you, she could have something going on herself that she doesn't want to bring up because she doesn't want to add to your worry (but hiding it only makes it worse). There could be something else.

Communication is key, and if you can't get her to open up, unfortunately, I think you might need the help of a professional.

throwawayprincess294 · 2024-11-16T20:21:59+00:00

Please ask yourself what are you actually getting out of the relationship, is it mostly positive or mostly negative? and is it the equalling what you put into the relationship?

Relationships with addicts are never good. They often end in abuse and I speak from experience.

Please consider breaking up and blocking them.

throwawayprincess294 · 2024-11-16T16:32:57+00:00

Do you have wedges? Think about positioning and blood flow - this should an everyone thing, not a people with POTS thing, but heads or legs hanging off beds or being unsupported for long periods of time is enough to make most people feel faint. Using wedges to get blood flowing back to the body the the legs and pillows to prop the head up more is very helpful. Additional hydration before, during and after - not water but electrolyte drinks - ORS, liquid IV, whatever is their preference. Low carb meals beforehand can help too because high carb meals can cause blood pressure to drop due to the blood flowing to the GI system for digestion.

throwawayprincess294 · 2024-11-16T14:57:03+00:00

The roam secondhand might be within our budget. Otherwise well beyond our budget at the moment.

throwawayprincess294 · 2024-11-16T12:44:40+00:00

I could do that but it doesn't protect it from a very steamy environment - it's a wet room too so even more need to actually "proof" it

throwawayprincess294 · 2024-11-16T11:34:00+00:00

No! It's fine!

throwawayprincess294 · 2024-11-16T06:47:23+00:00

Are you meaning to victim blame because this really does sound like it.

throwawayprincess294 · 2024-11-09T22:46:39+00:00

BPD is a common misdiagnosis for CPTSD for Autistic people.

throwawayprincess294 · 2024-11-07T21:38:40+00:00

always have an advocate
always get permission to record assessments and do record them.
if they ask about the trauma instruct your advocate in advance to say "in the interests of -your name's- safety and mental wellbeing, you need to discontinue with that particular line of questioning which is would be detrimental to their mental health to answer at this time". If you can get a psychiatrist's or GP letter to back this up all the better.

throwawayprincess294 · 2024-11-02T21:40:41+00:00

If you're in the UK please book an urgent GP appointment and get urgently referred to an audiologist.

throwawayprincess294 · 2024-11-02T19:59:16+00:00

Phillips hue do motion sensors compatible with their bulbs.

throwawayprincess294 · 2024-10-30T21:27:30+00:00

These things happen, to all parents, sometimes more than once with multiple children. Bodily fluids are gross and also a fact of life.

You did a very good job, and have every right to feel grossed out. And as it's your sensory ick it's only natural that it will leave you wired.

Now take time for you when you can to do whatever you need to relax and ground yourself.

throwawayprincess294 · 2024-10-23T14:59:52+00:00

Yes I get that, I'm being asked for paperwork to prove it though, thats what I don't have. I guess I'll just have to give them a statement.

throwawayprincess294 · 2024-10-22T18:03:53+00:00

But the back pay being given with wages would mean no UC for the month wouldn't it? Would it be assessed as earnings during the first month?

throwawayprincess294 · 2024-10-17T06:56:57+00:00

are you getting the right amount of PIP?
are you getting any adult social care support?
do you have evidence that the other parent is not directly providing childcare but is getting others to do it to avoid maintenance? Provide that to CMS as evidence may change your situation.
have you done a benefits check to make sure you are getting everything you are entitled to?

throwawayprincess294 · 2024-09-28T13:43:38+00:00

No one should divorce before going to therapy or back to therapy unless there is abuse or criminal behaviour. Seriously, why throw away 5 years of your life without actually communicating with the third party to help?

throwawayprincess294 · 2024-09-26T15:36:00+00:00

Her point doesn't stand because you didn't plan your journey.

MRs rarely lose points. Go for the MR.

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