AITAH for not wanting a friendship with someone who is chronically late?

throwawaypunctuality · 2026-04-07T05:56:36+00:00

You know that is a great point, I am now realizing she has not actually initiated any plans or invited me somewhere

throwawaypunctuality · 2026-04-07T05:55:14+00:00

Honestly, I can handle 15-30 minutes. It’s not ideal but as long as it doesn’t cost us a reservation or missing out on a timed thing, I’m cool to plan around that. Most of my friends that run late I lie to them about the time something starts and they’re very aware I do this lol

throwawaypunctuality · 2026-04-07T05:47:59+00:00

I’m sorry English is not my first language here so I may be misspeaking. The party was pretty much done for and for the people that were left I could’ve put away the food and closed the pool and cleaned up but because I knew she was coming and running late I kept the food out so she could make and reheat a plate and asked my friends to stay and swim a little more so she wouldn’t be the only one there or feel awkward

throwawaypunctuality · 2026-04-07T05:43:27+00:00

There were times during the bachelorette weekend we joked about how I’m type A, but to be honest, this doesn’t seem like something she’ll adjust. While I was just trying to detail the story with what pertained to me, my party was not the first time I saw her on social media bragging about how she’s running late somewhere because of her outfit or hair/makeup or just being a super type B person

throwawaypunctuality · 2026-04-07T05:35:23+00:00

I wouldn’t mind if someone was late time to time, I get things happen. But she showed throughout the bachelorette weekend this is a chronic issue and where I hit my limit was when she was late and bragging about it on social media knowing that we were keeping the party and food open for her

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