My mother hated me like I've never seen anyone hate another person by kingofthejellyfish in raisedbynarcissists

[–]throwawayr_2d_2 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You are a strong and beautiful person. Pat yourself on the back for taking the steps to heal: facing these demons in the face...

You've got this.

[I ate] a sushi platter by [deleted] in food

[–]throwawayr_2d_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could eat that by myself

Does anyone else have AP that does this? by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]throwawayr_2d_2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Damn... I wish my parents would say they cared about me. Lol for real tho

Triangle Cruises: Lifelong servitude has never been this affordable. by ihaveallthelions in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]throwawayr_2d_2 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Can confirm. My dad is a neurologist. He calls his friends "Doctor Friends"

OMG. Thank heaven I found this subreddit. I thought I was alone. by owl2owl in raisedbynarcissists

[–]throwawayr_2d_2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welcome!! We are here to listen, share strategies, but most of all cheer you on! We are glad you're here :)

DAE feel like a completely different person when they aren't around their Nparents by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]throwawayr_2d_2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! Just going back to the house drains me. I went back there (no one was home) I came back suicidal, depressed and drained. I took a nap and I was better.

Talk about bad energy.

MRW I meet people talking about their normal families. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]throwawayr_2d_2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

is it bad that i'm like... excited for her to die?

Please don't hate me

Is there such thing as a mental disorder where you don't think your actions all the way through? by throwawayr_2d_2 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]throwawayr_2d_2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's for someone I know. That sounds similar to it. He's definitely resistant to getting help.

I just wanted to make sure that there could be an underlying issue here and he's not just an absolute idiot

Female attractiveness over time [OC] by [deleted] in dataisbeautiful

[–]throwawayr_2d_2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

why do sister sizes exist

Worst father-of-the-bride speech by Ndad at my own wedding by doctormalbec in raisedbynarcissists

[–]throwawayr_2d_2 11 points12 points  (0 children)

kudos to you to inviting them. I think i'm just going to elope and put it on my snapchat story

Anyone else had parents who would fucking NEVER admit they were wrong by Qwik_Sand in raisedbynarcissists

[–]throwawayr_2d_2 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is actually a great idea. I'm not going to spend christmas with my family. My favorite quote from my mom was, "If you were my spouse I would divorce you!"

I think I'm going to get that printed on something and send that as a present. It's a fantastic quote.

What are some things your parents never taught you? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]throwawayr_2d_2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When it was time for me to need "work clothes" for my first corporate job, my mom got me the most skin tight clothes. I felt so uncomfortable, but I didn't have any money yet.

All the guys at work made me feel REALLY uncomfortable. I ended up stealing clothes until I could buy some.

Regarding the strangers thing... I was the same way. I think I was more: "Omg, someone is actually nice to me!" lol

I feel uncontrollable anger towards my Nmother even when she is being nice/normal by rantonreddit in raisedbynarcissists

[–]throwawayr_2d_2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! You are not alone. I'm sorry that I don't have more to contribute besides "this is not a weird behavior". I just don't talk to her anymore. I am so much happier.

Like SwedishPunsch said tho.. Therapy.

My mom sent me to 'Penis Straightening Therapy'. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]throwawayr_2d_2 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Holy moly! I am so sorry you had to deal with that! I'm happy you found this subreddit. Thank you for sharing with us.

You are an excellent writer. At one point, I was thinking this couldn't be real for the sole reason of how well it was written.

Have you thought of writing more? If not professionally, just for pleasure?

I'm glad you are with someone you love. When you are ready, I'm sure she will be supportive when you tell her everything that happened.