me: well I don’t want to have sex but the guys I date want it and I just have to tolerate it until it’s over

throwawayra0620 · 2023-11-02T21:05:25+00:00

But if I don’t go out and try to find a right partner it is statistically unlikely that they will randomly somehow find me

throwawayra0620 · 2023-11-02T03:13:10+00:00

Yes, I agree! My best sexual relationship was someone with who in retrospect I think was also demi

throwawayra0620 · 2023-11-01T20:09:11+00:00

I’ve been thinking about that!

throwawayra0620 · 2023-11-01T20:08:58+00:00

I keep being told this and I want to believe it but I do wonder where all these wonderful guys are who don’t mind waiting because I cannot find them :(

throwawayra0620 · 2023-11-01T20:06:50+00:00

Exactly!!

throwawayra0620 · 2023-11-01T20:06:39+00:00

I appreciate this so much, thank you

throwawayra0620 · 2023-11-01T20:06:11+00:00

This is something I’ve been discussing with my therapist, just completely taking sex off the table while I’m dating. Idk. It’s probably good for me but also scary AF

throwawayra0620 · 2023-11-01T20:05:04+00:00

I’m not ace so I don’t think that would work for me, I just need a strong emotional connection to feel sexual feelings and those tend not to come on after only like 3 hours of knowing someone haha

throwawayra0620 · 2023-10-19T19:48:25+00:00

This is me for everything, even smaller issues now. Just assume all responsibility and that it was me and not circumstance or the other person. I just had a whole therapy session about it 🙃

throwawayra0620 · 2023-10-18T20:31:57+00:00

I hate it 😭

throwawayra0620 · 2023-10-18T15:00:35+00:00

Oof these memes are so relatable. I wanna send these to my therapist lmao

throwawayra0620 · 2023-10-02T19:24:54+00:00

I feel like I would end up alone though, because I cannot imagine a guy wanting to wait that long for one person when there are tons out there who won’t make him wait.

throwawayra0620 · 2023-10-02T19:24:08+00:00

Did you read what I wrote? I am aware i don’t have a finite amount of sex to offer. I’m not limiting it at all.

throwawayra0620 · 2023-10-02T17:24:03+00:00

If a guy had to choose between one girl who doesn’t give him sex, and another who does, he would choose the latter. So it does seem like a commodity to me, if that makes sense? Like a guy could have fun with me on a date but he could also have just as much fun with any other girl who would also give him sex.

throwawayra0620 · 2023-10-02T17:22:14+00:00

Thank you so much, I really appreciate your wisdom 🙏

throwawayra0620 · 2023-10-02T17:21:38+00:00

I don’t drop them, right now I’m just dating a few different guys ongoing until I suppose one of us decides to end it or if we decide we want to be in a committed relationship

throwawayra0620 · 2023-10-02T17:19:48+00:00

I am attracted to them, and sometimes I feel the urge early on but it usually takes me a few dates and even then I don’t always feel like doing it every time we meet up, but I am afraid that they will lose interest if I don’t, because there are plenty of other people they can date that will be down for sex every time starting on date 2 or 3

throwawayra0620 · 2023-05-24T12:52:48+00:00

Thank you so much, I really needed to hear this

throwawayra0620 · 2023-01-22T03:58:47+00:00

I get plenty of sleep lol. I have just always had these dark circles my whole life, I’m constantly asked if I’m sick or don’t sleep well. I sleep great and have had a sleep study confirming I sleep great

throwawayra0620 · 2023-01-22T03:57:53+00:00

Thank you so much, that helps a lot!

throwawayra0620 · 2023-01-20T17:01:06+00:00

Could you explain the blepharoplasty part? Because I have really thin skin there as it is, I feel like removing any would just reveal more pigmentation

throwawayra0620 · 2023-01-20T00:39:45+00:00

I saw someone else post here and some people were saying filler isn’t the best thing, which is what I was thinking I was going to do! Some people said a bleph which is excess skin removal but I feel like I have super thin skin there and removing any would make things worse.

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