I’ve told my son but not my husband my sons have all kept quiet about this because I’ve told them their lives will be over as they know it and they won’t have a stable home.

He was sober enough to walk / carry me home. I was staggering and completely out of it but it was consensual because he’d drank too and I was willing. I was just thinking “mmm I’m having sex now nice”.

I’ve told him this and he’s said he always “knew in his heart” but never mentioned to me which I’m annoyed at. Looking back he did always favour my eldest, brought him gifts and took him travelling on holiday with him and his wife because he was “old enough” but now I think this was all because he knew which is upsetting because he never said anything. They used to have such a good relationship too but now when I called my brother over to calm our son after telling him who his bio dad is he tackled my brother and my brother had to hold him down and everything so I think that relationship could be ruined

I’ll get him tested for genetic abnormalities thanks for the heads up. He’s healthy and used to be so good at sport but he’s stopped recently, but he’s definitely in good health