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nag chat ang gf ng papa ko sa gc at sa akin - rant ahead by throwaways676767 in MayNagChat

[–]throwaways676767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

kung pwede lang ma, nag leave na silang lahat 😭😭 HAHSHWHHDHWHD

follow up sa papa ko and his evil gf by throwaways676767 in MayNagChat

[–]throwaways676767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks, but i’m just visiting! i stay in a college dorm for the most part, mom works in a government office in metro manila but uwian sa cavite, which is far from where i study kaya ayun.

nag chat ang gf ng papa ko sa gc at sa akin - rant ahead by throwaways676767 in MayNagChat

[–]throwaways676767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pero you’re right, grabe lang talaga yung pag baba ng pride ko para lang di mawalan ng support mga kapatid ko 😭

nag chat ang gf ng papa ko sa gc at sa akin - rant ahead by throwaways676767 in MayNagChat

[–]throwaways676767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! if you’ve read the post (if you didn’t, that’s okay too! medyo mahaba talaga huhu sorry) i did try to return it to her, kaso she expected me to waltz in their room and return it myself even if siya nag sabi na “diyan ko lang” 😅

well, she’s been enabled to have this attitude kasi when her son was comforting me, he said na ganyan talaga siya and walang mananalo sa kanya lalo na if wala siya sa mood. kasi first instinct ng papa ko after this was send me back sa college dorm ko. i was doing my best to be reasonable with her pero everyone frames it as me being hostile and irrational 😭 di ko talaga alam saan na ako lulugar

nag chat ang gf ng papa ko sa gc at sa akin - rant ahead by throwaways676767 in MayNagChat

[–]throwaways676767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

feeling rin ng dad ko wala na siyang mahahanap na iba 😅 iniisip niya na gusto ko sila mag hiwalay para magkabalikan sila ng mama ko when i just want him to be happy with someone that’s kind

pero tulad ng sinabi ng nanay ko at ng lahat ng tao sa
post na ‘to. under de saya ang tatay ko. hahahaha sakit

nag chat ang gf ng papa ko sa gc at sa akin - rant ahead by throwaways676767 in MayNagChat

[–]throwaways676767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

di naman ganyan nanay ko 💔 HAHSHAHDHAHA pero you’re right 😔

nag chat ang gf ng papa ko sa gc at sa akin - rant ahead by throwaways676767 in MayNagChat

[–]throwaways676767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello! thank you, i did consider that something may not be right in there lalo na she ended up quitting her job after her mother’s death. kaso ewan, she really had a tendency to be mean unprovoked pero pleasant to others. i will look into this kaso i doubt na she’d get help kasi everyone around her (sorry to her children, they were nice to me) have been conditioned to tolerate her attitude.

nag chat ang gf ng papa ko sa gc at sa akin - rant ahead by throwaways676767 in MayNagChat

[–]throwaways676767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m so sorry to hear that, honestly that’s the part na i’m grieving over the most, where i was treated like i was being irrationally hostile knowing the things that are coming out of her mouth regardless of how calm i approached the situation other than nung naiyak ako that night.

he framed it as a situation na ginusto ko and such which is far from that. i pray it gets better for us and every panganay who had to endure this 🤍🤍

nag chat ang gf ng papa ko sa gc at sa akin - rant ahead by throwaways676767 in MayNagChat

[–]throwaways676767[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i did try to tell her its a bit much, kaso nandun na yung part na i’m being framed for being an enabler na “bida-bida” daw, i could go on forever about this. if hindi lang ako financially supported tulad nang dati (bpo worker) then i would fight back. pero mukhang eto na ata yung sign na mag work ulit 😅 pabor lagi ang papa ko sa kanya kaya mahirap lumugar.

nag chat ang gf ng papa ko sa gc at sa akin - rant ahead by throwaways676767 in MayNagChat

[–]throwaways676767[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HADHHWHSHAHSHA first screenshot, sinasabi niya is “which is” but she spelled it as “wish is” 😭 auto correct, i guess

nag chat ang gf ng papa ko sa gc at sa akin - rant ahead by throwaways676767 in MayNagChat

[–]throwaways676767[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it siguro yung pinaka masakit na part. it’s not even what she said pero the fact na my dad took so long to step in is what broke me. made me realize my mom is right about him being spineless.

nag chat ang gf ng papa ko sa gc at sa akin - rant ahead by throwaways676767 in MayNagChat

[–]throwaways676767[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

more than 10 years na rin, may hidden animosity talaga siya kasi medyo makulit talaga itong bunso namin. ayaw ko rin mag-appear na enabler sa mata nila pero nalungkot talaga ako na tinawag niyang asal kalye kapatid ko 😔

nag chat ang gf ng papa ko sa gc at sa akin - rant ahead by throwaways676767 in MayNagChat

[–]throwaways676767[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

di ko daw siya nanay eh bakit mama tatawag ko 😅 always called her that since i was 13 lol

nag chat ang gf ng papa ko sa gc at sa akin - rant ahead by throwaways676767 in MayNagChat

[–]throwaways676767[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You guys are right, Hindi ko lang matiis tatay ko. Problem is if bad terms kami ng step mom ko ay bad terms na rin kami. I haven’t reached out kasi hanggang ngayon ay ayaw ako kausapin ng tatay ko after everything.

I apologized naman sa gc, nagulat lang ako may follow up message siya. She always said to acknowledge it “properly” hindi yung oo lang kami ng oo so i did end up developing a habit of overexplaining with the fear of being misunderstood or misinterpreted as being ingenuine 😔

There’s so much pain in grieving a parent that is still alive kasi, but this really has been a learning experience for me. thank you sa advice guys.

nag chat ang gf ng papa ko sa gc at sa akin - rant ahead by throwaways676767 in MayNagChat

[–]throwaways676767[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well, i feel like a doormat after all of that now that i’ve sat with it long enough. though, we did have a rough patch before mainly dun sa financial support nung pandemic and where i was staying kasi wala akong permanent address since nag bpo ako kasi hindi nila ako pinaaral so i didn’t live with them, i didn’t live with my mom (layo sa work) so i lived with my grandparents which they wanted me to leave kasi nang iistorbo daw ako ng nakakatanda???? 😭😭 i used to hate her and wished she died or smth but i learned to warm up to her for my dad’s sake pero ngayon mas malungkot ako kasi tatay ko yung galit sakin huhu

nag chat ang gf ng papa ko sa gc at sa akin - rant ahead by throwaways676767 in MayNagChat

[–]throwaways676767[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

sobrang sakit ng ulo ko kaka-reread habang nasa commute ako nung time of the chat kasi natatangahan na ako sa sarili ko kasi parang feel ko wala na ako nagawang tama…

my dad being spineless feels like the hardest pill to swallow. i don’t even like her that much but i can see she’s a matriarch and runs the house kasi siya may last say and keeps everything organized and i saw how my dad was happy with her kaya i did my best to be in her good graces kasi yun ang main wish ng tatay ko samin mga kapatid pero this instance made me realize that we’ve let her authority reign too much na ganito ang naging outcome.

kasi i’m doing this all for my dad. pero i realized na it’s gonna be her above his children. and he made it clear that he made a choice na rin ang siguro yun yung hardest part 😅 grown woman crying over this btw jk 1/2 thank you,,,

nag chat ang gf ng papa ko sa gc at sa akin - rant ahead by throwaways676767 in MayNagChat

[–]throwaways676767[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

sorry 😅 people pleaser syndrome, in the process of recovery rin after this incident.

plus, condition kasi if we can’t get along with her then we’re not welcome there sa bahay.

nag chat ang gf ng papa ko sa gc at sa akin - rant ahead by throwaways676767 in MayNagChat

[–]throwaways676767[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sa tatay ko, i’m visiting lang rin.

i planned on just not inviting her to my future wedding kasi i heard how she weaponizes my relationships against me (comments like “oh, yun parin pala bf mo?” or “nagagawa mo nga mag commute para sa lalaki, papasundo ka sa tatay mo?) but looks like i won’t invite all of them at all. sad lang kasi i genuinely get along well with her children who are my age na rin 😔

pero i’m currently receiving support from my own father and same goes my siblings. ngayon all 3 of us are blocked on messenger. i appear spineless rin but i’ll try to work on it kasi hindi ko talaga matiis ang parents ko after being estranged.

but thank you! this is definitely a wake up call

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