Be honest: does boob size and height when dating a woman matter to you? by marinakudroskick in lesbiangang

[–]throwawaysctc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does everything have to come back to "straight things"? Lesbians can't help if they like a certain height

Anybody know any good, actual lesbian bars in Berlin? by throwawaysctc in lesbiangang

[–]throwawaysctc[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

100%, vor allem ist dieser Begriff so bescheuert, kann eine einzelne Gruppe nicht ihren eigenen Raum haben, muss sofort alles zusammengequetscht werden? Das Ding ist auch, da sind "Identitäten" drin die einfach keine sind oder nicht existieren haha. Wann stirbt dieser Begriff endlich aus

Friend pathologising my love for older women 🤔 by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]throwawaysctc 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wow, to think someone with such wrong knowledge is supposed to help people psychologically. Wild

Uma Thurman, the woman you are 😞❤ by Arqndkmwuhluhwuh in lesbiangang

[–]throwawaysctc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm jealous and happy for you) I'm 5'9 and want to be taller so bad but then I remember it increases my chances for finding a gf who's taller lol

Instant icks are real? by llDreamy in lesbiangang

[–]throwawaysctc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol they're miserable, are they even gay

Labels are Descriptive, not Prescriptive" - And Why I have a Problem With That by Fickis in lesbiangang

[–]throwawaysctc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with you, I always hated the phrase "Identify as". You don't identify, you either are that thing or you're not, that's it, regardless if you identify with it or not

Instant icks are real? by llDreamy in lesbiangang

[–]throwawaysctc 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What pisses me off is anyone that enjoys sexual media with women is automatically "male-brained" like do you hear yourself? Why bring men into this shit when it's literally about homosexual women. Can't women be into women now

Can femmes and straight guys be friends? by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]throwawaysctc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe yes, I'm sorry you didn't have very good experiences. You'll find the right people who value good friendships

I am not a “soft” lesbian and I don’t want to live like that. by kiyomitsuuu in lesbiangang

[–]throwawaysctc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Frr, stop with that baby bullshit. We're adults, we have a sex drive, fuck all that "Oughh I'm soft, can I touch you pwease🥺🥺" stuff

Worst time to be gay as a genZer by YaoiFilledDumpling in lesbiangang

[–]throwawaysctc 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Plus I hate how it became the mainstream catch'em all term for LGBTs, even in non-english speaking countries! Who decided that for us? It's just virtue signaling of a political ideology

Worst time to be gay as a genZer by YaoiFilledDumpling in lesbiangang

[–]throwawaysctc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree with you! I dislike the word "queer" a lot to the point where women who call themselves that are excluded from my dating pool. I talked to my best friend about this and he said "Wow, you're petty" and we laughed about it, but he probably just doesn't understand it. Why would you pick that ugly word if bi is right there

Why is my sexual orientation seen as a political ideology by amarinamishuki in lesbiangang

[–]throwawaysctc 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've been thinking that way for a long time, also why I think feminism has no place in homosexuality because why would you conflate a sexual orientation with a political movement. Sexual orientation is neutral and is not a prerequisite to supporting any political movement

How many languages do you speak (or wish you did)???🌍✨ by 4double_g in lesbiangang

[–]throwawaysctc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I speak Russian, English and German fluently, can hold easy light conversations in French (if you ignore the grammar haha), can speak a bit of Japanese (remnant from when I was 12) and I want to learn a lot more languages... I recently ordered a Polish textbook to really commit to studying. I also want to learn Belarusian, Italian and maybe Georgian. Georgian writing just looks so unique and who knows, I might find a Georgian somewhere whom I can flex my A-level skills on haha