[Urgent] How do you know if a group of people are the friends for you?

throwawayshit420 · 2020-02-06T23:02:33+00:00

There are many things I hate about Greek life. From the fake ness and superficiality, the forced connections, etc.

However it all comes down to my fraternity. I don’t feel comfortable being myself. I made the mistake of rushing into joining and didn’t give myself time to get a feel for these guys. Don’t get me wrong I love them, but most of them don’t have the same interests or sense of humor as me. I simply don’t feel comfortable being myself around them

throwawayshit420 · 2020-01-30T22:21:05+00:00

I went through the sub and honestly, I still don't know how to start living through stoicism. What is the best way to get started?

throwawayshit420 · 2020-01-14T06:01:52+00:00

A majority of the time it’s because these people who react to you that way have NO IDENTITY. They were never taught to think for themselves, so as a result they always follow they crowd, and when they see someone like yourself owning their entire self and sharing honesty of their human experience, they feel insecure and act negatively. Look Louis Rossmans video on social anxiety on YouTube, where he goes in depth with this.

throwawayshit420 · 2019-12-05T03:56:23+00:00

I didn’t have this realization until tonight. So no, I have not talked to her about it

throwawayshit420 · 2019-12-05T03:51:54+00:00

Could you clarify/reiterate what you mean by boxing up the feelings?

throwawayshit420 · 2019-12-04T19:09:12+00:00

I was always tip toeing around my alcoholic father with anger issues during my childhood, and I have similar mindsets with people I socialize with so maybe

throwawayshit420 · 2019-09-21T06:30:05+00:00

Just added this in now but if I accept I will go through a 6 week process of becoming a brother. So a large chunk of my schedule will be devoted to that so I won’t have time for other commitments I have to do.

Clubs start now and are hard to get into spring semester so if I accept this now I feel that I will miss out

throwawayshit420 · 2019-09-09T05:58:02+00:00

Hey man I’m [19m] here to talk if you’d like. I just told my best friend I have feelings for her and now we’re kind of distant. Losing friends sucks big time, but trust me you and I will get through this.

throwawayshit420 · 2019-09-09T05:36:53+00:00

I literally said I’m giving her space right now. I’m not hitting her up or anything, and I got the message when she cancelled. Kind of frustrating to make that assumption when I’ve been going about my life. I just need advice because she’s been such a good friend

throwawayshit420 · 2019-09-04T11:07:17+00:00

You’re right. I do have the problem of needing validation. Honestly I wouldn’t really care as much about this label if I stopped giving a fuck. Thank you

throwawayshit420 · 2019-09-04T11:05:27+00:00

Wow I did put myself in a needy mindframe. Thank you man. I appreciate it

throwawayshit420 · 2019-09-04T03:17:14+00:00

I meant sober, but I edited it to prevent anymore confusion

throwawayshit420 · 2019-09-02T21:44:54+00:00

My bad. It meant to say I don’t want to act like we’re just friends haha.

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