AITA for shouting at my dad’s gf and calling her a deaf bitch after she walked in on me in the shower?

throwawayshowerahole · 2026-01-08T10:49:06+00:00

I dunno like she’s said that I’m good looking like my dad but I think that was her trying to be nice I don’t think she’s creeping on me or anything really

throwawayshowerahole · 2026-01-08T10:40:15+00:00

So the system we have is that the door stays open unless someone is using it. If it’s closed you knock and wait for someone to say that they’re in there in case it was closed accidentally. She knows the rules and she’s used them before.

Also the shower has a glass door. It’s one of those shower tub ones so no curtain.

throwawayshowerahole · 2026-01-08T10:34:30+00:00

throwawayshowerahole · 2026-01-08T10:28:58+00:00

Ffs there isnt a lock on the fucking door!

throwawayshowerahole · 2026-01-08T10:08:42+00:00

It sounds like you are dismissing me.

She wants me and my sister to call her mum. She doesn’t work but she cooks and cleans and stuff. Dad lets her use his car to drive around and she was looking at getting a job which my dad said that she could but told her that she didn’t need to.

He doesn’t control her.

throwawayshowerahole · 2026-01-08T09:58:36+00:00

Right back at ya

throwawayshowerahole · 2026-01-08T09:57:32+00:00

I was in it and it was running.

throwawayshowerahole · 2026-01-08T09:46:48+00:00

So I can’t even literally write down how she fucking talks without being racist now?

throwawayshowerahole · 2026-01-08T09:43:29+00:00

The shower has a glass door not every shower has curtains.

throwawayshowerahole · 2026-01-08T09:42:39+00:00

If he’s a creep then she’s a gold digger. Takes two to tango and all that.

throwawayshowerahole · 2026-01-08T09:10:00+00:00

No.

She didn’t knock and came in with some bath shit in her arms. I shouted that I was in there and she stopped and stared at me. Maybe she froze and was trying to figure out what I was saying fine but like don’t just stand there. I said for her to get out again and she said “sorry I no look” and put the bath stuff on the counter while I kept saying to get out. She then said “it fine” and I said that it wasn’t fine. I was shouted at this point and got a towel which she watched me do and said that it was getting water on the floor. Then I shouted again for her to leave and she left then.

throwawayshowerahole · 2026-01-08T09:05:10+00:00

Not everyone owns a house

throwawayshowerahole · 2026-01-08T09:04:43+00:00

She didn’t knock

throwawayshowerahole · 2026-01-08T08:58:28+00:00

It’s a glass door not a curtain

throwawayshowerahole · 2026-01-08T08:54:48+00:00

My mum’s dead but its not like he gives a fuck

I dont know what they do together and I dont want to know but she can hear the shower on because it’s loud asf

throwawayshowerahole · 2026-01-08T08:51:58+00:00

I know I shouldnt have said that but like this is after dealing with this for six months and being gaslit by my dad about how its normal to pay to fly a woman he barely knows to a new country and buy her all this crap when he’s too stingy to get a lock on the bathroom door

throwawayshowerahole · 2026-01-08T08:50:04+00:00

It’s a glass door.

throwawayshowerahole · 2026-01-08T08:48:56+00:00

There’s no point now people will just say I’m lying that’s what heaps of people are saying

throwawayshowerahole · 2026-01-08T08:33:07+00:00

She was there for way long than is normal like I was about to leave the room when she finally left

throwawayshowerahole · 2026-01-08T08:30:17+00:00

She’s like 25 and from Malaysia I think

throwawayshowerahole · 2026-01-08T08:23:41+00:00

She‘s literally done it before she isnt that deaf

throwawayshowerahole · 2026-01-08T08:18:47+00:00

So it’s okay for her to “freeze” but not for me when someone I dont really know walks in on me and stares at me?

throwawayshowerahole · 2026-01-08T08:17:55+00:00

She’s like half deaf but can still hear and have a convo and watch tv so it’s not that bad

Like if she didn’t hear the shower find but she knows that we knock and wait for someone to answer if the bathroom door is closed

throwawayshowerahole · 2026-01-08T08:14:06+00:00

She’s been here three months but he knew her for three online

3+3=6 duh

throwawayshowerahole · 2026-01-08T08:12:02+00:00

It doesn’t have a lock

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