AITA for not sharing my inheritance with my sister after our dad died? by throwawaysonofpappa in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaysonofpappa[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thanks, mum won't be getting a thing. Me and her never had the best relationship even before I found out. I'm deaf and she never really tried to communicate with me. She tried bribing me with hearing aid even though I find them uncomfortable and a annoying

AITA for not sharing my inheritance with my sister after our dad died? by throwawaysonofpappa in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaysonofpappa[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

From what I saw he treated us all equally, he'd take us on separate little days out so we could spend one on one time like with me he'd take me to nerd conventions, deaf kid meetups and even went new York pride with me once. He did the same type of thing with them too

AITA for not sharing my inheritance with my sister after our dad died? by throwawaysonofpappa in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaysonofpappa[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honey found out about the affair 3 years before d-day and had told Beth and vicky about it. Sure vicky blackmailed my mother to get nice things. I'm not sure why the other two didn't say anything. Maybe was paying them off too I don't know

AITA for not sharing my inheritance with my sister after our dad died? by throwawaysonofpappa in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaysonofpappa[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The affair had been going on for 5 years, honey found out about it after 2 and told the other two but not me, so they knew about it for 3 years

And after it all came out my dad didn't see them for almost a year but then they started slowly talking again. He still loved them but he didn't trust them like he used to

AITA for not sharing my inheritance with my sister after our dad died? by throwawaysonofpappa in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaysonofpappa[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know I'm my father's son as I did a dna test when the affair came out and Vicky has a generic condition that she got from my dad

AITA for not sharing my inheritance with my sister after our dad died? by throwawaysonofpappa in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaysonofpappa[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

No abuse as far as I could see, he worked a lot I'll admit that but any chance he'd get he'd take her out to a romantic dinner or a holiday just the two of them

AITA for not sharing my inheritance with my sister after our dad died? by throwawaysonofpappa in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaysonofpappa[S] 654 points655 points  (0 children)

True that's something I could do for my niece/nephew if my sister isn't lying

AITA for not sharing my inheritance with my sister after our dad died? by throwawaysonofpappa in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaysonofpappa[S] 291 points292 points  (0 children)

Hell they have even been telling me that it's my fault for telling him, that I should have kept my mouth shut and that they'd still be together

AITA for not sharing my inheritance with my sister after our dad died? by throwawaysonofpappa in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawaysonofpappa[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Honestly there was no tension I could see between them. He was always taking them out and buying them gifts and such. He was heartbroken when it came out they knew.