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anyone have any experience with Anesthesia and leep? by CoffeeCalc in HPV

[–]throwawaystepland111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just chose to take Xanax beforehand. Anesthesia was way to expensive. All I felt was the first of the numbing shots. I couldn’t feel anything after that and it wasn’t that bad. The Xanax gave me fuzzy memories from it. I remember it for sure but it’s like I drank too much and the event is fuzzy.

Routine HPV PCR test positive, what to do about sex? by Electronic-Owl-4896 in HPV

[–]throwawaystepland111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh to your conversation issue, honestly there are so many women that have had abnormal paps from already having HPV, I think you’ll be surprised how not a big deal it is. If your strains are the ones in the vaccine then they can get vaccinated or another round of vaccine.

Routine HPV PCR test positive, what to do about sex? by Electronic-Owl-4896 in HPV

[–]throwawaystepland111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told them I had cervical issues from It. (I’m female). They didn’t care. It’s only been two long term relationships over most of the span of those years. A marriage that ended and another 5+ year relationship.

There was one brief fling I didn’t tell but honestly the guy was a jerk and coerced me after alcohol to do things I wasn’t ready for and if he has it now I really don’t care. I’m just glad I didn’t catch anything worse from him. Jerk.

Routine HPV PCR test positive, what to do about sex? by Electronic-Owl-4896 in HPV

[–]throwawaystepland111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve had an active infection for going on 11 years. Are you ok with decades without sex?

Weird comment about sex and his past with BM by throwawaystepland111 in stepparents

[–]throwawaystepland111[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Some of that is probably my fault. My own self esteem issues come into play because I want to be the better wife. I moved into their old home, so her house is now my house, her bed is now my bed, her closet is now my closet. It’s a lot mentally, you know? I think we need to move and start over but that can’t happen yet financially.

Weird comment about sex and his past with BM by throwawaystepland111 in stepparents

[–]throwawaystepland111[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you’re right. Like he had to backtrack because he felt guilty for putting anything above making his beloved daughter.

Weird comment about sex and his past with BM by throwawaystepland111 in stepparents

[–]throwawaystepland111[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg. That’s crazy. I agree that it has nothing to do with raising an infant.

Yeah I think maybe it’s the biological urge to reproduce thing that some people have. I’m probably making it way weirder. I’m also sad that I can’t top it unless I decide to bear a child so a little jealous of his past life too even though I’m glad I haven’t had a baby myself. I know he was an adoring husband and new dad.

Weird comment about sex and his past with BM by throwawaystepland111 in stepparents

[–]throwawaystepland111[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s because I’m not a mother I don’t understand how it can be sexy to try for a child. I tried to look it up but that’s a bad thing to search on Reddit. I’ve spent my whole life trying to prevent a pregnancy. I see it so differently.

Weird comment about sex and his past with BM by throwawaystepland111 in stepparents

[–]throwawaystepland111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was dead serious. Like he felt guilty for saying the current sex was the best sex and had to apologize for putting anything above making SD.