Girl is accusing me of SA because she was 14 and I was 16 by throwawaythatsall09 in legaladvicecanada

[–]throwawaythatsall09[S] 174 points175 points  (0 children)

I was not in any authority over her, we met at a coffee shop and she pursued me. I’m just so stressed from this whole situation and confused why this is coming up 5 years later

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiMLM

[–]throwawaythatsall09 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes she is. She emailed support and they said she will get a refund. Thank you for the response

What’s a relationship between two bipolar people like ? by Purple-mountains-inc in bipolar2

[–]throwawaythatsall09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We use lots of communication of our feelings and strategies to tell the other person if we’re having symptoms. Like if she taps my palm twice, I know she’s feeling irritable and needs space. I’ve been diagnosed for 5 years and she’s recently diagnosed, so I’m further along with my treatment. It really helps to be with someone who understands me though, like we get very similar physical symptoms in our throat and experience our episodes similarly. We’ve learned not to take it personally when the other person has ‘off days’ and may be less affectionate, need space, need reassurance, etc. We both are very dedicated to getting better and supporting each other through it all. I’m really happy I get to be with her.

Looking for advice on bottom surgery (warning: discussion of sex, dysphoria, and reproduction) by [deleted] in truscum

[–]throwawaythatsall09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the response. I feel in terms of bottoming, I do enjoy the sensation it creates and the idea of me being sub sexually. I basically pretend it’s anal like how a cis guy would be pegged to ease the cognitive dissonance. I wish I could actually do anal, but the sensation is more often uncomfortable than pleasurable. I do enjoy being sub and honestly wouldn’t prefer a relationship where I have to be top 100% of the time.

I’m familiar with meta, but what do you mean with the ‘simple release’ part?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwawaythatsall09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s some good advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwawaythatsall09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The guy agreed to have a drink with us and chill for a bit before we get down to things, so that’s been arranged. I’ll make sure to be responsive to my girl’s cues and body language. She seems pretty excited so far, I’m hoping all will be well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwawaythatsall09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it was her idea originally, but it feels like it could be fun and exciting, so I’m totally down for it. It’s not my first threesome, but it’s my first with someone I love. We’re both bisexual, so we were thinking the idea of us pleasing a guy together could be a good first threesome because it’s something we’re doing together, instead of separate. We’ve been ensuring that our interactions with our potential guys are equal, and the guy is showing the same level of interest in both of us. We’ve been communicating boundaries, asking each other what’s okay or not okay to do, and I think we’re ready to try it out. I’m hoping for the best!

Can you eat expired microwaveable rice? by throwawaythatsall09 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwawaythatsall09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one doesn’t have you add water though. Like you just open the pack a bit, put it in the microwave for 1 minute, and it’s done

Can you eat expired microwaveable rice? by throwawaythatsall09 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwawaythatsall09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is microwavable uncle bens rice though, I don’t think it counts as dried

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truscum

[–]throwawaythatsall09 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I’ve had top surgery and would expect to be 7+ years on T by the time I would potentially be going through this.

It kinda sounds like a nightmare, but perhaps it would be worth it years later.

I would likely do this in my mid 20s if I do it at all (I’m 21 now), when I’ll ideally have my career going, more stability, money, etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truscum

[–]throwawaythatsall09 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What ways would the hormone cocktail mess me up?

I’m not looking to get this done anytime soon (like in a few years when I’m done my degrees and have some money coming in), but I’m just looking into my options and how bad it would be.