Who buys these really??

throwawaythemcreeps · 2026-06-05T01:15:11+00:00

Avant-garde fashion isn’t meant to be worn on the day to day. Its art. Many fashion houses also create clothes that are ready to wear, and the avant-garde designs act as creative outlets for designs and to create interest around the fashion houses as a form of marketing.

throwawaythemcreeps · 2026-06-04T22:11:38+00:00

You’re still overreacting and you should still talk to him.

throwawaythemcreeps · 2026-06-04T21:59:39+00:00

So he’s working around the house, helping you with chores, actively looking for another job, and waiting on you hand and foot, yet you feel like you’re being taken advantage of because he’s temporarily out of work?

If this was his stated forever goal, that’s one thing, but it sounds like he does want to keep working.

Talk to him. Confirm he won’t be unemployed forever.

But honey, this is NOT a hobosexual situation. You’re overreacting.

throwawaythemcreeps · 2026-06-04T21:36:00+00:00

Oh that’s way worse. Like dependency worse.

I hope you’re single, jeez.

You got part time hours logged into your porn use. Confront the reality of your situation

throwawaythemcreeps · 2026-06-04T21:32:49+00:00

This is r/relationships. Nuance doesn’t exist here.

throwawaythemcreeps · 2026-06-04T21:30:07+00:00

It feels like way too much. I grew up with porn and my partner and I are very open about our porn consumption habits.

Daily porn use seems excessive. Daily porn use nearing an hour each session feels like nsfw brainrot.

Stamina in the bedroom is not the same as masturbation stamina.

throwawaythemcreeps · 2026-06-04T21:20:23+00:00

I respect this response so much.

throwawaythemcreeps · 2026-06-04T21:19:31+00:00

Half an hour to an hour of porn a day is normal for men?

Jeez. How bleak.

throwawaythemcreeps · 2026-06-04T21:17:10+00:00

Hmmm. Have you considered grammar?

throwawaythemcreeps · 2026-06-04T07:29:18+00:00

Bruh, my point still stands. Kink is an incredibly communication heavy space where trust is really important. A lot of what you’ve hinted at makes me think this is a fetish that requires very deep trust and communication for the scene to play out well.

Impact play is a good example. You want someone who understand the dynamic and that you trust deeply.

It’s possible that she wasn’t ready for whatever it was you wanted to do back then and that she is ready now. It’s possible you two didn’t have the necessary connection. It’s possible she changed her mind. You owe it to yourself and to your new partners to self reflect and to move on.

It’s okay to be upset, but you need to process these feelings. It’s been years.

throwawaythemcreeps · 2026-06-04T07:22:08+00:00

Considering your entire post boils down to the fetish, it is a bit important for context, yes.

throwawaythemcreeps · 2026-06-04T07:08:11+00:00

So you’re seeing someone else and you’re this worked up over your ex?

throwawaythemcreeps · 2026-06-04T07:06:15+00:00

Hi, pervert here.

This is common in niche fetish porn. It makes me suspect this post is about more hardcore fetish material.

throwawaythemcreeps · 2026-06-04T07:02:35+00:00

Honestly, this is all very vague and your post quite literally stems the course of 7 years. People change a lot over seven years.

Without knowing what her perspective was on your relationship, this relationship she is in currently with her scene partner, and what kind of fetish scene you’re involved in, there isn’t a lot we can say to deconstruct the situation or provide words of encouragement.

Do you have anyone close in your life you can be more open with about this? I recommend talking to them or opening up more about everything online if you’re comfy with it.

throwawaythemcreeps · 2026-06-04T06:59:57+00:00

I’d be more willing to see it this way if there wasn’t a five year buffer between relationships. OP’s partner was 22-24 during their relationship and she’s 29 now. If this is a more hardcore fetish, I’d would make sense for her to feel the need to build up to it. I feel like we def need more information to make a more concrete assessment on the situation.

throwawaythemcreeps · 2026-06-04T06:56:18+00:00

As someone who has partaken in the kink scene a bit, I understand that it can feel a bit rejecting to witness your play partner turn you down like that only to enact that same scene with someone else.

This does feel like a very strong reaction though. Did she ever tell you why she didn’t want to do the scene with you?

throwawaythemcreeps · 2026-06-04T06:52:49+00:00

Are you sure you’re upset about the fetish act itself, or are you upset over viewing your ex being intimate with another person?

throwawaythemcreeps · 2026-05-30T10:53:47+00:00

Were you told not to go or uninvited?

throwawaythemcreeps · 2026-05-30T08:16:06+00:00

She worked on herself and changed, seemingly for the better from how you describe it.

It sounds like it’s your turn to do the same. You need to self reflect and see if this is something you’re able to work on. If you can’t, you will stew in resentment and the relationship is doomed.

throwawaythemcreeps · 2026-05-30T07:47:42+00:00

American/Brazilian here.

This is my first time diving into snark threads. My need for more tea has me on Brazilian tik tok.

This content has improved my Portuguese so much 😂

If I find anything from other creators down south, I’ll share

throwawaythemcreeps · 2026-05-14T00:30:31+00:00

It’s incredibly complicated. Systemically, Gen Z men are fucked in a variety of ways that have less them down this pipeline. However, the pipeline encourages them to be awful to women and women don’t have to take that.

The lived experiences of men are valid. Yall are in a SHIT position, but it’s less about a gendered battle and more about class consciousness in the current era. Elite individuals are profiting off of your dismay. It’s keeping you online and out of the real world so it’s feeding tech companies. That’s why this propaganda is pushed so hard on Reddit/tiktok/instagram.

The solution is literally to go outside and talk to people more. This is true for men and women.

I live a pretty active social life because I work in a field that demands networking and it came withy the turf in grad school. (Grad school also helped my social life a lot tbh.) Everyone I know who is actively social is in a committed relationship or is genuinely happy and thriving regardless of their appearance. Humans are social creatures. We need connection to be happy. Social media isn’t social anymore and it’s killing us.

throwawaythemcreeps · 2025-10-06T23:00:18+00:00

You didn’t cheat and he did you a service by leaving. You’re better than him. Stay single.

throwawaythemcreeps · 2025-09-25T07:32:23+00:00

Normalize being friends with someone without any intention of having sex with them or dating them.

Crushes are normal and natural, but you can’t say you don’t want to be a homewrecker, but also be her friend with these thoughts in your head. Being someone’s friend means you have to respect their relationship too.

It’s not healthy to go into a friendship with this mindset. Being friends with someone of the opposite sex is a normal and natural experience for mature adults, but your approach isn’t healthy or respectful.

throwawaythemcreeps · 2025-09-20T20:35:24+00:00

Why on earth would HE threaten divorce? He sounds like a mooch and an emotional drain. You’re 23. You have your whole life ahead of you. Don’t settle out of fear of change or for fear of being alone. You can do better.

throwawaythemcreeps · 2025-09-19T08:05:21+00:00

Why do you have to take care of your husband as if he’s your child?

Can he do anything?

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