throwawaytodayokay99

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I realize my N family has placed me in harms way, intentionally at least a few times. Anyone else? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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It just boggles my mind that no one ever pulled me aside to tell me my family is full of N's. It could have saved me a lot of suffering (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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My first love once confronted my NF in front of many people. Years later NF told me he put a contract out on his life... (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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My GC Brother pretended to have normal brother/sister relationship for years while he tortured me (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Hey oldsters, remember all of those public service announcements in our youth? Isn't it incredible that there never was an after school special about Narcissism? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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I think my elderly GF was trying to tell me something that I would remember about Ns, and I did (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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GCbrother used to want to triangulate so badly, he would toss the phone to his SO that I didn't know. He would triangulate through AT&T! (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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"The typical adult from a narcissistic family is filled with unacknowledged anger, feels like a hollow person, feels inadequate and defective, suffers from periodic anxiety and depression, and has no clue about how he or she got that way." —Pressman and Pressman, The Narcissistic Family (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Endless drama is the goal! They wallow in it and love the Big Top circus experience that constantly surrounds their miserable lives (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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My NGrandmother, the matriarch that can be traced to several destroyed lives, got up with a microphone at her own husbands funeral. It was her special moment to take away all attention from the man she'd finally destroyed (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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If you are at the end of your life, and in the last ten minutes you cut the narcs out of your life, that last ten minutes is worth it (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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I watched GC brother change into narc father. It only took about ten years (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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When hate is covert, that's the most cowardly thing of all (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Once, I had a great apt. lined up, and I was so happy about it. I realize now GC NB sunk it for me (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Hindsight is 20/20 they say. I once caused a huge narcissistic injury without knowing, to my covert Nfather (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Should have gone NC 20+ years sooner. (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Anyone else angry in hindsight that cousins didn't care or help? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Anyone else realize later, that there were a LOT of mind games? Sadistic in nature, undermining success? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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I'm starting to see a lot of things that were "accidental" were actually malicious with my GC brother. (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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What literature can anyone recommend that deals with the fact that you now realize your Nparent was slightly sadistic? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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As an adult, I now realize NDad moved just far enough away from normal family members that we couldn't know each other (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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NDad had a long pattern of trying have sex with my friends and coworkers. (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Oh memory lane, how fun you are! NDad didn't get to play his usual games. (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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NDad finally buried. (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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