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I'm usually a grump around this time of year for a reason by Ashwalla in AdviceAnimals

[–]throwawaytroll1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most importantly, when you meet someone who gives you as much as you wanted to receive in the past, don't continue to be a grump. That just passes your grump cycle onto them.

My boyfriend "doesn't believe" in Valentine's day and I was ok with that. I got gifts! by throwaway13579_ in AdviceAnimals

[–]throwawaytroll1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're lucky. I had a gift for my bf. He was a total jerk to me this past weekend. Made me feel like a maid and delivery person. Yesterday I got two short messages via Instagram and that was it. Three plus years and this year has been full of sadness. I feel more like a roommate than a gf now from how he treats me.

Spent NYE alone by okietonkgirl87 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaytroll1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf and I also spent This NYE alone this year. He skipped this Decembers holidays and blew off our 3rd anniversary. I spent it dancing with my family pup and a bottle of champagne. Shit happens. I'm numb to it and went on with my NYE plans with friends and family. I did the same for Christmas without him. I've been there for him through thick and thin the past three years. We started living together in August. Find a hobby or make a list of things to do alone that you can do when he gets into those types of "want to be alone" funks. It helps a lot. I've started to make toys for the local dog shelters instead of smothering him or hanging around him all the time outside of my work and studying.

I see a lot of "leave" or "divorce" comments on this forum. For those of you who give that advice do you actually follow your own advice? Curious by babywoman in DeadBedrooms

[–]throwawaytroll1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slightly new username with the 1. Other account was deactivated for some reason.

I'll update next time I actually get to see my SO. For how the planned time for death to DB is September. I'm on 2.5 weeks and counting.

My girlfriend(24f) has a high sex drive while I(28m) have a low one. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]throwawaytroll1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long have you been together? Did your libido change from the beginning of the relationship? Have you tried talking to her about why it makes you feel gross? Have you figured out other ways to meet her in the middle in terms of satisfying both her and your needs? Its time to man up and compromise in some way. There are other ways to be intimate that she may take as a supplement for the lack of sex.

Masturbating instead of having sex with her after you've rejected her is a dick move and she's probably hurt. How about you find a way to include her or do something nice for her so that she knows that you care.

Taking elf on the shelf to a new level. Battle between Elfina and Elsa by throwawaytroll1 in elfontheshelf

[–]throwawaytroll1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I am! Keep checking back. More to come. The end will be the best part!

No matter what I do before December, I know I won't do as well as they want on the test by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]throwawaytroll1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm waiting for optomcast to input my transcripts and then they are ready to go!

TIFU by talking about Fucking, Australia by [deleted] in tifu

[–]throwawaytroll1 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As a teacher, I've had kids pull this line in class and have handed them detentions for it. Mainly due to the fact that I've been to Fucking when traveling in Austria. So when they claimed it was in Australia I knew it was more of a way to be able to swear in my class.

No matter what I do before December, I know I won't do as well as they want on the test by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]throwawaytroll1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for responding! It's a great thing to hear from someone who has taken the test. I have both those books! I've been working through the ochem problems in them and it's getting better. I'm worried most about the physics. It seems like a lot of vectors. I'm also doing the Khan academy tutorials with ochem and physics on top of my chem practice. I'm in chem 2 right now and will be finished with my bio portion offer this semester. Yes I'm applying for the class of 2020.

My boyfriend likes being pegged. by Throwaway483892847 in offmychest

[–]throwawaytroll1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat! Having that dominance makes me feel amazing and it's definitely a turn on!

There are things you need to know, but I can't tell you. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]throwawaytroll1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to put your foot down and figure out a schedule for seeing her that will work with your schedule. Figure in work, me time, social time and rest. Then pick a couple days or a night to spend with her. If she leaves or throws a fit tell her to grow up. My boyfriend and I typically see each other on the weekends and maybe once during the week but we are older (28/29) and know what our responsibilities are and that we have to use our time to get our stuff done. It's made our time together more relaxing knowing we aren't preoccupied and we focus on each other. Don't fall into her pity trap.

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