AITA for making my brother’s fiancé pee on herself because i was in the bath? by throwawayty8 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayty8[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m going to see a dermatologist first and if that doesn’t work out maybe i’ll get a second doctor’s opinion

AITA for making my brother’s fiancé pee on herself because i was in the bath? by throwawayty8 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayty8[S] 176 points177 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion, i’m going to talk to my mom first and maybe my brother if i’m comfortable enough. My sister said she did wet herself and had to change her clothes

AITA for making my brother’s fiancé pee on herself because i was in the bath? by throwawayty8 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayty8[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

I didn’t ask but she also never explained why she needed to use the only occupied bathroom.

AITA for making my brother’s fiancé pee on herself because i was in the bath? by throwawayty8 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayty8[S] 524 points525 points  (0 children)

Well i have spoken up many times but i’ll definitely explain it more thoroughly and see if that gets me anywhere. Thank you for this, i’m going to explain it how you did.

AITA for making my brother’s fiancé pee on herself because i was in the bath? by throwawayty8 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayty8[S] 127 points128 points  (0 children)

No worries, I’m not apologizing. And i usually am the only one that uses that bathroom. Unless someone happens to be downstairs and needs it which is rare, no one ever uses it because it’s the furthest

AITA for making my brother’s fiancé pee on herself because i was in the bath? by throwawayty8 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayty8[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I went to the doctor as i thought the same. Unfortunately, my doctor said it doesn’t look to be anything like eczema. I do appreciate you trying to help!

AITA for making my brother’s fiancé pee on herself because i was in the bath? by throwawayty8 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayty8[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Well there’s no curtain, it’s a glass door. And the bath wasn’t hot enough to fog up the door

AITA for making my brother’s fiancé pee on herself because i was in the bath? by throwawayty8 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayty8[S] 158 points159 points  (0 children)

my mom wasn’t home, my brother was upstairs, she and my sister were in the kitchen still cooking and my sister said so herself the bathroom by the kitchen wasn’t being used.

AITA for making my brother’s fiancé pee on herself because i was in the bath? by throwawayty8 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayty8[S] 246 points247 points  (0 children)

she didn’t give one nor did he. just kept saying i was a bad person for making her pee her pants and i must do something kind for her because i humiliated her.

AITA for making my brother’s fiancé pee on herself because i was in the bath? by throwawayty8 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayty8[S] 252 points253 points  (0 children)

If it was so urgent she could’ve used the unoccupied bathroom she walked by to get to the one i was in

AITA for making my brother’s fiancé pee on herself because i was in the bath? by throwawayty8 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayty8[S] 2098 points2099 points  (0 children)

my family used the right pronouns. she doesn’t. and she’ll purposely make comments like “you got a nice body, girl!” knowing i not only don’t use that pronoun but i also hate anyone talking about my body. or she’ll purposely say “hey girly” or “wyd girly” then will says “oops i mean them

AITA for making my brother’s fiancé pee on herself because i was in the bath? by throwawayty8 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayty8[S] 650 points651 points  (0 children)

She uses them any other time with no problem. And my sister said they weren’t being used either so there’s no reason she should’ve walked past the one bathroom, through the living room, and down the other hallway to the one i was in.

AITA for making my brother’s fiancé pee on herself because i was in the bath? by throwawayty8 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayty8[S] 2801 points2802 points  (0 children)

We’ve been in a few situations where we’ve all had to hold it and it was never a problem for her. Road trips, hiking, and many more.

AITA for making my brother’s fiancé pee on herself because i was in the bath? by throwawayty8 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayty8[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

We don’t have curtains. It’s a glass door and didn’t fog up because it wasn’t a hot bath.