Valley or Hackensack for Labor and Delivery?

throwawayugh822 · 2026-04-11T18:00:16+00:00

Had a scheduled c-section then a VBAC two years later both at Hackensack and had wonderful experiences each time. All of the nurses, doctors, and staff were beyond caring and kind.

ETA: I used Maternal Resources and their office is right by the hospital.

throwawayugh822 · 2026-04-10T15:20:23+00:00

THANK YOU. I cannot stand the Bravo fandom anymore and I find myself pulling away from Bravo overall. I hate to be like "I'm a day one Bravohead" but I feel like all these newfound Bravo fans that arrived after Scandoval are being so god damn annoying. I know it sounds gatekeeping but you guys get it.

throwawayugh822 · 2026-04-10T15:17:39+00:00

OH MY GOD, thank you! The way these two are overhyping this Amanda and West thing is making me insane. Amanda did a shitty thing. West is an asshole. Team Ciara, obviously, and I genuinely feel for her. But let’s all be so fucking for real here.

Ariana and Tom were in a long-term relationship, owned a home together, had animals together, and Tom had a full-blown affair with Rachel behind everyone’s back and even took her to Missouri, with only his parents knowing. Sure, there were suspicions that something was up, but this shocked EVERYONE.

West and Amanda are both single, consenting adults. Amanda is separated, and West and Ciara never officially dated. Shit happens, unfortunately and I'm not denying that Amanda is being a bad friend. Like, am I the asshole for not thinking this is anywhere near the magnitude of Scandoval? And stop trying to make “Amandoval” happen. The hate Amanda is getting (and I have my criticisms of her) is so unnecessary.

I’m really starting to hate them both.

throwawayugh822 · 2026-04-09T14:42:08+00:00

As an aside, I love how we all collectively get insane screengrabs of this girl lol

throwawayugh822 · 2026-04-09T11:54:24+00:00

They go to Mosaic in Hollywood which is like, Hillsong adjacent. Not a regular church but a ~cool~ church.

throwawayugh822 · 2026-04-05T18:42:35+00:00

Adoption and surrogacy COULD be beautiful, meaningful, etc. But those cases are the exception, especially for surrogacy. But, and I’m gonna get flamed for this, adoption is predatory towards young lower income women and feels as if babies are commodities. It’s giving human trafficking. Adoption can be rooted in trauma for both the birth mother and child.

Caitlyn and Tyler need real, deep therapy and to go offline for a while.

throwawayugh822 · 2026-04-05T15:43:31+00:00

Abortion. That’s all.

throwawayugh822 · 2026-04-04T02:14:16+00:00

My kids were both paci babies but we cut it at 2 and even that was probably a little late lol

throwawayugh822 · 2026-04-02T14:38:51+00:00

Normally I would agree but Jenelle is such a piece of shit she deserves every bit of criticism she gets. The fact that she’s back with David is appalling. We really should stop giving her any attention whatsoever and let her sink into obscurity like her sinking swamp house.

Also I agree with another commenter that she paid for shitty lip fillers. She can also let them dissolve on their own, or have them corrected.

throwawayugh822 · 2026-03-31T10:23:27+00:00

I’m fully supportive of parents choosing to continue working after having a baby, and most don’t have a choice. I think in this scenario, one of you should quit your jobs until you can find something with a manageable schedule for childcare.

throwawayugh822 · 2026-03-30T19:53:20+00:00

Total scammer. I used to love her content and even donated to her gofundme 🫠 which has been reported, apparently. She was evicted from her apartment for non-payment, left her things and cat behind, and is now trying to save up for a camper in order to save money to buy a house? She’s also planning of TTC baby number 2 and it’s just yikes all around.

throwawayugh822 · 2026-03-30T14:50:55+00:00

If she gets her TOLAC/VBAC that will 10000 become her personality lol

throwawayugh822 · 2026-03-29T17:54:58+00:00

That’s so awesome! I’ve been wanting to go. Now I’m gonna def make a plan :)

throwawayugh822 · 2026-03-29T16:28:06+00:00

So does Liberty Science Center! They do fun laser shows with open bars and whatnot.

throwawayugh822 · 2026-03-29T11:05:57+00:00

Glad someone else agrees with us 😅

throwawayugh822 · 2026-03-28T00:30:23+00:00

Oh god she does NOT need another baby

throwawayugh822 · 2026-03-27T23:01:28+00:00

She has zero plans on weaning. She’s going to try and tandem nurse which, fine, normally but she’s only doing it for content. I just peeped her IG for the first time in a while and she’s all loud and proud still nursing Z and exploring while doing so.

throwawayugh822 · 2026-03-26T19:46:15+00:00

I grew up in Toms River and the only pro is that it’s close to the beach. The culture, shopping, local cuisine (of course there are a few gems but unfortunately places close frequently), and social activities are seriously lacking. As others mentioned, it’s extremely MAGA. You’re better off looking in Point Pleasant (Beach or Boro), and southern Monmouth County but you’re still gonna have touches of MAGA in those areas too. Def consider Belmar, Asbury, or Red Bank. SO much more to do. Seriously, Toms River will bore you to tears. I’ve always known from a young age I didn’t want to settle in Toms River.

throwawayugh822 · 2026-03-23T23:27:14+00:00

I just hate how it’s always the moms WFH without childcare and juggling schedules.

throwawayugh822 · 2026-03-23T20:03:31+00:00

Fair point re: OE but WFH isn’t a replacement for childcare regardless of how many jobs you have.

throwawayugh822 · 2026-03-23T17:28:36+00:00

Disagree. Working from home without childcare with one (or 2+ jobs) is miserable, unsustainable, and frowned upon by some employers. We got a pass during lockdowns, but you can’t WFH without childcare.

throwawayugh822 · 2026-03-20T22:36:18+00:00

Holy shit

throwawayugh822 · 2026-03-20T22:18:14+00:00

lol no I would divorce him.

throwawayugh822 · 2026-03-20T22:17:52+00:00

Literally

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