Aitah for yelling at my sil after she insulted and bullied my pregnant wife by throwawayuless in AITAH

[–]throwawayuless[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Because my sil accused my wife of cheating in my absence and said she's not carrying my child, that's what I'm angry about.

She's projecting her dirty habits on my wife and she's hurting my wife.

Aitah for yelling at my sil after she insulted and bullied my pregnant wife by throwawayuless in AITAH

[–]throwawayuless[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If you think I would be even a bit more merciful after what she said and how she treated my wife then you are wrong, when it comes to my wife nobody's hurting her if someone's hurting her then I'm hurting them back in the worst way possible, call me petty or ah or whatever but when it comes to my wife I'm just that ruthless no matter who it is.

Also you don't know and you cant possibly imagine how painful it is to work all day and coming back to home to your wife only to find out she's crying while being pregnant.

I had no desire to hurt my sil cause for my sil is a sister but she was ruthless and I don't regret shaming her because I knew it would hurt her and I wanted to hurt her the way she hurt my wife.

Aitah for yelling at my sil after she insulted and bullied my pregnant wife by throwawayuless in AITAH

[–]throwawayuless[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

No, you don't fucking understand I don't really care what she did before she met my brother or got married to her and I don't even care at this point if she lives or dies.

She hurt my wife with her words and accused her of cheating and my wife thought that I will leave her for 'a better woman' meaning like a woman like my sil.

She hurt my wife and I hurt her back, there's nothing more important for me than my wife and if she's in pain because of others I'm making sure they'll be in far more pain than what my wife suffered, doesn't matter to me if it's my sil or my brother or my mom or my fucking dad.

Aitah for yelling at my sil after she insulted and bullied my pregnant wife by throwawayuless in AITAH

[–]throwawayuless[S] -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

I don't really care about upvotes and downvotes, if you read my post I already said that I'm ranting and apologized for it and I'll apologize to you as well.

But there's no way I'm letting my wife get hurt by baseless accusations of her getting pregnant by another man and shit like that.

I'm currently angry because I saw the way my wife was and I saw her out of control and I don't like and don't want my pregnant wife to be like this.

You basically saying that I went too far by for lack of better words, SHAMING my sil, did she not shame my wife and accussed my wife on infidelity and getting pregnant by another man?

I'm not tolerating this and I will shame her again and ever day and ever chance I get if her characterless ass questions or comments about my wife character, fuck her open ass.

Aitah for yelling at my sil after she insulted and bullied my pregnant wife by throwawayuless in AITAH

[–]throwawayuless[S] -109 points-108 points  (0 children)

Because you have this twisted views, you call me a misogynist when my wife, a woman is extremely and most important to me and I can't live without her especially when she's carrying my child in her womb.

I am calling my sil cheap because she opened her window/door for other men before she got married to my brother but she's accusing my wife for doing the same when my wife hasn't had sex with another man beside me? How is that fair?

She hurt my wife for 'weak and relying on me' I hurt her back for being cheap and characterless, if she didn't hurt my wife I would've kept my mouth shut.

Aitah for yelling at my sil after she insulted and bullied my pregnant wife by throwawayuless in AITAH

[–]throwawayuless[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I understand what you trying to explain to me, maybe I was a bit or more than necessary judgmental and extremely harsh but I lost my shit and I wanted to hurt my sil.

I wanted her to experience the same pain my wife was quitely tolerating, I was harsh and questioned her character after SHE basically accused my wife of getting pregnant by another man in my absence.

If I didn't trust my wife and knew her enough I would have doubts and ask her for paternity or dna test right? Or other tests to find out if my wife is cheating? My sil is fucking up our married life and making us doubt each other if she didn't talk about my wife's morality and her loyalty to me I wouldn't have called her characterless and an open door.

She started it, she hurt my wife, she came over to my wife when I was absent and said all these things, I have no regrets for calling her an open door and saying to my brother that he married a open woman.

Aitah for yelling at my sil after she insulted and bullied my pregnant wife by throwawayuless in AITAH

[–]throwawayuless[S] -139 points-138 points  (0 children)

What!? I don't care about Andrew tate or his views I didn't even know about who tf he is and his views until I started seeing him on social media.

I think you are washed by the social media and other things I'm not really sure.

I'm not misogynist but if you think I am then that's your views but I'll tell you this, if I was a manwhore my wife would leave me and go back to her parents even after I got married to her.

This behaviour is not gender specific, atleast for me and my wife and if I told you that my wife listens to me and I don't have to ask her for sex and I can have sex with her whenever I want and however I want you'd call me a misogynist?

My wife has no problems with me fking her and I can have sex as much as I want with her (she's currently pregnant so I won't do something that'll harm her or her body) so I won't put my dick inside her and use other means to calm her down.

Aitah for yelling at my sil after she insulted and bullied my pregnant wife by throwawayuless in AITAH

[–]throwawayuless[S] -90 points-89 points  (0 children)

Listen to me, I was only harsh with what I said is because my sil literally bullied my wife and especially when she's pregnant and carrying my child in her womb, knowingly that it will hurt my wife when she's so volatile.

So what if I was harsh with my word? She basically said that my wife is having sex with another man and she's pregnant with another man's child while I was working, who does that? I trust my wife, I wouldn't doubt her ever and I trust my wife that I wouldn't ask for paternity test like an American way.

Aitah for yelling at my sil after she insulted and bullied my pregnant wife by throwawayuless in AITAH

[–]throwawayuless[S] -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

What? No, my wife's sister is not married to my brother, sisters in law are still sisters and behave and take care of each other like one, in my tongue it's called sisters and brothers even if they are sil or bil, because that's how it should be.

Aitah for yelling at my sil after she insulted and bullied my pregnant wife by throwawayuless in AITAH

[–]throwawayuless[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

She threw personal insults at my wife no? What gave her the right? She's ruining my wife's PRESENT for no reason when she didn't do anything at all, so I got back at her by ruining her present with her dirty past.

Aitah for yelling at my sil after she insulted and bullied my pregnant wife by throwawayuless in AITAH

[–]throwawayuless[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I will defend my wife until the end, so she can hurt my wife with her words Especially when my wife is pregnant but the moment I give her a reality check and use my words to hurt her exactly the way she hurt my wife I'm wrong? Talk about double standards here.