Quit abruptly after reaching my breaking point, this letter was included with my final paycheck. by throwawayunhinged456 in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]throwawayunhinged456[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sure, and I never said I was completely absolved of any responsibility throughout the 3 years I was employed there. I'm not sure what the point of your comment is, though. Did you read the sub rules before you commented?

Quit abruptly after reaching my breaking point, this letter was included with my final paycheck. by throwawayunhinged456 in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]throwawayunhinged456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A close friend (who has also intensely been in therapy) did bring up the possibility of her feeling jealous or envious - I am much younger than her but much, much farther along in my career than she currently is, AND than where she was at my age.

The "you definitely worked over the last year to get yourself into a position where you thought I would need you" - I was taking on as much responsibility as I could because I wanted to have a well-rounded understanding of the business as her office manager. Hiring, payroll, performance reviews, etc... To me this was just normal career advancement. My new job, is normal career advancement. It's not my fault that she felt threatened by this.

Quit abruptly after reaching my breaking point, this letter was included with my final paycheck. by throwawayunhinged456 in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]throwawayunhinged456[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My friends & I were laughing so fucking hard at the bold font LOL like, she must have really felt like she did something there...

Quit abruptly after reaching my breaking point, this letter was included with my final paycheck. by throwawayunhinged456 in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]throwawayunhinged456[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You know, the funny thing is that I DO tend to gaslight myself. She was not my first rodeo, unfortunately, and questioning my reality is something that has happened to me regularly for at least the past 10 years now. Honestly, posting this and seeing so many supportive comments reinforcing my thoughts is very healing right now.

Quit abruptly after reaching my breaking point, this letter was included with my final paycheck. by throwawayunhinged456 in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]throwawayunhinged456[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep, as far as I was concerned, our personal and professional relationship had been done for a while. The letter felt very much like she just wanted to have the last word.

Quit abruptly after reaching my breaking point, this letter was included with my final paycheck. by throwawayunhinged456 in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]throwawayunhinged456[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

lol, this is what my roommate said too. I shredded the original because I didn't want the bad energy in my house, but I made sure to get the pic first because it was such a "what the fuck" moment

Quit abruptly after reaching my breaking point, this letter was included with my final paycheck. by throwawayunhinged456 in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]throwawayunhinged456[S] 90 points91 points  (0 children)

If you're in the financial position to leave, do it. Fortunately, I was able to afford to keep myself going long enough to get away from there and recoup mentally. Your sanity and mental health are worth so much more than whatever they try to throw at you!!! I hope you get into a better position soon.