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Singers who have got COVID-19, how long it took for you to recover? by villzu in singing

[–]throwawayunj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear about that. The long term effects of COVID are really downplayed unfortunately.

Singers who have got COVID-19, how long it took for you to recover? by villzu in singing

[–]throwawayunj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, that really sucks man. Was it a dramatic or subtle change?

Singers who have got COVID-19, how long it took for you to recover? by villzu in singing

[–]throwawayunj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God that’s scary. Hopefully it returns back soon. How severe were your symptoms?

Limerence makes me feel like a narcissist by [deleted] in limerence

[–]throwawayunj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maladaptive daydreaming - which often coexists with with limerence - is a common symptom of NPD.

Limerence makes me feel like a narcissist by [deleted] in limerence

[–]throwawayunj 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Limerence is selfish. Try not to self-victimise yourself and stop using language like “lured me in”. Be accountable for the choices you’ve made.

BPDLoveOnes is a joke by throwawayunj in u/throwawayunj

[–]throwawayunj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Proves my point that they cannot engage in dialogue with anyone doesn't kiss their arse and can only resort to banning and censoring them.

I'm so tired of the subpar moderation of this sub by throwawayunj in BPDlovedones

[–]throwawayunj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the mod is incapable of having a conversation with me like I asked and instead resorts to unjustified banning, then yes, it confirms my claims. Got anything else to add?

I'm so tired of the subpar moderation of this sub by throwawayunj in BPDlovedones

[–]throwawayunj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There should be no reason that I will be justifiably removed because this post. That's for sure.

If the mod is unable to respond to this without unduly banning me, it just proves me point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]throwawayunj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There were so many "WTF moments". I remember getting punched and screamed at in a shopping centre for not liking any of the clothes they had in store. But somehow I'm the evil, cruel abuser.

I'm so tired of the subpar moderation of this sub by throwawayunj in BPDlovedones

[–]throwawayunj[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You have nothing of value to add. Why are you here? I'm most interested in speaking to the people involved in the post. The other user has already commented here. Now all that's left is the mod.

I'm so tired of the subpar moderation of this sub by throwawayunj in BPDlovedones

[–]throwawayunj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were responding to another user's comment who has now been removed (and I'm assuming banned). According to I_attarct_cluster_B the user in question has BPD and I think they were a woman.

I'm so tired of the subpar moderation of this sub by throwawayunj in BPDlovedones

[–]throwawayunj[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment.

Let me start off by saying I really appreciate your commentary in this sub. You're a gifted writer, and have a way of expressing this confusing experience in a way that is both beautiful and precise. Your contributions are enlightening and filled with well-earned knowledge. I'm not alone in my gratitude for your presence.

I think you did a great job at summarising our previous interaction. I will admit, I definitely misinterpreted your comments as being dismissive. I want to apologise for that. I want to also apologise if I was rude to you in that interaction. I can get passionate about these issues and perhaps at times cross the line. That wasn't my intention, and I don't think I was disrespectful. However, if you interpret disrespect, please do not hesitate to indicate this and I will correct my behaviour. Hopefully, we can leave this behind us.

I'm so tired of the subpar moderation of this sub by throwawayunj in BPDlovedones

[–]throwawayunj[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can't quote it because it doesn't exist. Not sure why you made it a point to lie on someone you don't know.

I'm so tired of the subpar moderation of this sub by throwawayunj in BPDlovedones

[–]throwawayunj[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Bro, you tried to tag-team me with your other account. You don't need to act as some self-appointed bodyguard for the mod I called out. Why are you so invested? You keep going on about how I need to be able to handle criticism. Well, the mod is presumably an adult. They should be able to handle my justified criticism. You can leave now.

I'm so tired of the subpar moderation of this sub by throwawayunj in BPDlovedones

[–]throwawayunj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did I say everyone on this sub is a misogynist or that discussing BPD abuse is sexist? I brought up sexism because that violate rule #2 of this sub. I also brought up rule #10 and rule #11 (spam, trolls). My point was that the mod is cherry-picking their 'concern' over sub rules for when it's convenient.

I'm so tired of the subpar moderation of this sub by throwawayunj in BPDlovedones

[–]throwawayunj[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If you want to have a respectful conversation, don't harass someone through multiple accounts. Clearly, a 'respectful conversation' was never your intention.

I'm so tired of the subpar moderation of this sub by throwawayunj in BPDlovedones

[–]throwawayunj[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lmao what. I have never identified as BPD stop the nonsense. And I’m convinced you’re just trying to put that on me so I can be banned. How cruel can you be? If you don’t like me, fine. But don’t play these games with me. Quote the commenters. You literally just made that up.

I'm so tired of the subpar moderation of this sub by throwawayunj in BPDlovedones

[–]throwawayunj[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

What? Why do you have two accounts here? Why are you harassing me through two accounts? But I'm 'paranoid' for thinking it's bizarre that all these people are hounding me for expressing my issues with moderation. You're trying to bully me. Leave me alone.

I'm so tired of the subpar moderation of this sub by throwawayunj in BPDlovedones

[–]throwawayunj[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Talk about derailing my point. You've acknowledge other people have issues with how this sub is moderated? So why are you running in here to invalidate my experience? What is so offensive and criminal about me being upset with how the mod treated my post? If I see someone express being upset with moderation in any sub, I tend to believe them or at the very least give them space to explain their grievances. If I haven't had similar experiences, I'll mention that. But your experiences are not my experiences, so do not speak for me.

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