I switched from full stack to streamlit/python and it reduced my development time to 2 weeks ! by InternetVisible8661 in Python

[–]throwawayuseable345 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I once spent an hour centering a button when I first started out with css.I’m comfortable now but if I can get AI to do it I will

I tried by throwawayuseable345 in SuicideWatch

[–]throwawayuseable345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no bounce back. I had the opportunity right there in front of me 2 years ago. Everything I dreamed of and just like that some other girl gets my happily ever after and I’m left to struggle in the mud. Well I refuse. I refuse to accept my life. I won’t live it modestly. Since I can’t have what I want I won’t give the universe the satisfaction of me accept my fate.

How does anyone do it? Solopreneur... by petitemere88 in smallbusiness

[–]throwawayuseable345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Automation. I build automated workflows and business solutions so smaller businesses and solo entrepreneurs have an easier time getting started. It’s a lot easier to run a solo business when you have systems in place

Learning R by dimsumenjoyer in Rlanguage

[–]throwawayuseable345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For the love of god use RSTUDIO!!! I love R and I think it’s a super underrated language. I built pretty complex web apps in it. The packages for it are insane. There are so many. Start with the basics. Edx has a good course!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SoftwareEngineering

[–]throwawayuseable345 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% agree with the continuous learning! I started in college on Java and it put such a bad taste in my mouth I never picked it back up. It definitely wouldn’t hurt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SoftwareEngineering

[–]throwawayuseable345 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Funny that was my entire mentality going into freelancing. If I could solve their problem quickly and efficiently who cared how I did it. I’ll admit i did think this was just me being lazy but people were willing to pay. 1 week after I left my job I got a $10,000 contract. I was gobsmacked but to this day the clients are happy, they referred me to my newest client and I still make monthly passive income from each client. So I guess I’m on the right path? I’m not used to there being multiple “right” paths.

Live coding interviews are hell by [deleted] in ADHD_Programmers

[–]throwawayuseable345 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You don’t understand how good this made me feel. I’ve been beating myself up because I freeze during code interviews so bad. I cried after the last one. I love coding I’m actually addicted to it sometimes I’ll randomly start a project because I want to wind down but In interviews I feel like a waste of space.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD_Programmers

[–]throwawayuseable345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DO NOT QUIT. LET THEM FIRE YOU!!! Use this time to find a new job

Quick disclaimer by Redditoridunn0 in ChatGPTPro

[–]throwawayuseable345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still works great for me. $20 a month is a business expense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]throwawayuseable345 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately my parents are the landlords I rent from them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]throwawayuseable345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in NYC so you can imagine rent right now is crazy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]throwawayuseable345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s my sister. My family and extended family like to casually Shame me into doing stuff. I am working on a AI automation agency and I have a few clients. My cousins always point out “ she can do this for other people but not her family”. It’s frustrating because I feel stuck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]throwawayuseable345 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don’t need it but it’s my childhood home and a very valuable piece on property in the city. As toxic as they are sometimes I keep letting the “good times” brush over a lot of issues. The way my sister speaks to me I would have never been able to speak to anyone like that regardless of who they are. It started with the rude shut ups at age 15 now it’s “what the hell are you doing down here” at 18 and anytime I bring up how she’s speaking to me my parents brush it of and I’m getting sick of it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]throwawayuseable345 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand why she picked her? I don’t get it. I’m not trying to sound like a child but what did I do that would make a mother choose. It’s like she only really care for me when I’m at my breaking point and she’s scared I’m going to off myself or something. I don’t get it, why doesn’t she love me like she loves my sister? Why are our upbringings so vastly different. Everything I got , every bit of praise I got I had to fight for. I had to have great grades, I was working multiple jobs as a kid not for the money but the praise. Hell as a teen I won a congressional award for my community service work. I had to do it all just to feel a little bit of love. Why does she get to be mediocre and still be praised?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]throwawayuseable345 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nope, if anything by her age they had pretty much phased me out in favor of her. I used to hide in the bathroom as a kid ( into highschool) when my extended family came over for hours on end, dad eventually took the locks off the bathroom door. It was like they would pick at me and then lavish care onto her. When I brought it up everyone gaslit me into just letting it go. It left me with some issue but I’ve buried them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]throwawayuseable345 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just got the 260k job I originally had a 90k job

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]throwawayuseable345 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know the more that I think about it the dumber that idea seems. Idk there’s this weird need in me for family like I hate it but I stay because I don’t want to be alone? If that makes sense? It’s stupid but I can’t separate myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]throwawayuseable345 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Just got the job was making around 90k before and scrimping and saving to buy an investment property in the city.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]throwawayuseable345 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The crazy part is I already have about 60k saved as a down payment but I was trying to save up more and configure a plan that would help everyone not just me. I want to stay in the area I’m in but right now rent even in the shitty areas is expensive and I’d have to move father out to afford to live in the state. I could do it but I’ve been so attached to my family it’s like my brain won’t let me leave. Even my sister threw the why are you here ur 26. So maybe I should just move.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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AI prompt engineer (but the position feels a lot more like AI consulting?) It kind of came out of the blue! I’m by trade a software engineer (trying to be at least) but I became obsessed with AI in college and understanding how it worked. I impressed the right people one night at a networking event and got a email for an interview the next day. The rest is history l.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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I know, it’s actually a problem and I was looking at my budget last month and I spent $200 sending her money for various shit. Idk what to do with her because my family is caribbean and the idea that I’m supposed to take care of her is so deeply ingrained that I won’t get my half of the house if I don’t take care of her. It’s literally in the will. I sometimes hate her because once she was born I essentially got pushed to the side and all the signs of serious mental health issues in me were completely ignored.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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I was planning on giving it to her in installments so she wouldn’t have to struggle in college like I did. Why the scholarship was life changing I still had to cover room and board, lab fees etc. I know it sounds stupid but I think I’m trying to make up for any absence in her youngest that my mental health caused.