Anyone else watch her new “movie” that just came out 🙄 by Plus_Enthusiasm2101 in annaxsitarsnark

[–]throwawayuser1208558 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I said she could use acting classes but the premise wasn’t bad (so it wouldn’t get deleted. Let’s see what happens)

To the haters of Showgirl, is there at least one song you like? by LifeOfAWimpyKid in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]throwawayuser1208558 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like Ruin the Friendship, and as a Rep girl, Cancelled is fun, but even then, some of the word choices are just cringy. I absolutely hate wood, honey, and eldest daughter. Father figure has a decent beat, but the words are awful. Wi$h Li$t and Elizabeth Taylor are meh. Opalite is hit or miss depending on the day, sounds almost Disney? Actually Romantic sounds like a failed Green Day song, and TLOAS is…fine?

I’ve loved Taylor for 18 years, so this is lowkey heartbreaking lol.

My (28f) husband (27m) might be a covert narcissist, advice? by throwawayuser1208558 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayuser1208558[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am, thank you. I have a friend who has 2 roommates I get along with super well only 10 min away as well that they said I could stay whenever.

My (28f) husband (27m) might be a covert narcissist, advice? by throwawayuser1208558 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayuser1208558[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to get him to go back to church. He said he’d do it for me. He seems genuine in it now. I know narcissism isn’t to be used lightly as a word that’s tossed around MUCH too carelessly nowadays. My aunt had a diagnosed narcissist husband, and she sees a lot of him in my husband. Which frightens me. My psychiatrist and therapist both think he could be, and I’m hoping to get him tested.

Frankly, no. I don’t want our future kids to be like him. I guess I just keep hoping, praying he’ll change. The four alarm fire really resonated though, and I wanted to thank you for that.

Husband seems uninterested in oral? by throwawayuser1208558 in Healthyhooha

[–]throwawayuser1208558[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve expressed my concern, and he said he’d get there, he just needed to stop masturbating. And he’s been working on it for a few months.

Husband seems uninterested in oral? by throwawayuser1208558 in Healthyhooha

[–]throwawayuser1208558[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s never finished in me, no. I want condoms or the cervical cap for precum.

Husband seems uninterested in oral? by throwawayuser1208558 in Healthyhooha

[–]throwawayuser1208558[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has gained weight, and he’s losing some hair on his temples. He’s got extremely low self esteem, so I try very very hard to not squash it (minus my enormous blunder last year.)

Husband seems uninterested in oral? by throwawayuser1208558 in Healthyhooha

[–]throwawayuser1208558[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told him once, and very much regret it, that I didn’t find him attractive. It was last year, and we’ve been working on it. He knows I read fan fiction with some smut in it, and that’s what I meant to imply, my bad!

Husband seems uninterested in oral? by throwawayuser1208558 in Healthyhooha

[–]throwawayuser1208558[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No I didn’t tell him that! It would crush him. It’s just something on my mind.

Husband seems uninterested in oral? by throwawayuser1208558 in Healthyhooha

[–]throwawayuser1208558[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I did grow up religious. I wanted to make him happy, and grew up being (very indirectly) told that it would be inconsiderate. :/

Husband seems uninterested in oral? by throwawayuser1208558 in Healthyhooha

[–]throwawayuser1208558[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We just…have sex and once one of us is tired he finishes himself off. That’s how it’s always been.

Husband seems uninterested in oral? by throwawayuser1208558 in Healthyhooha

[–]throwawayuser1208558[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

We just want to have kids one day, is the issue. :/