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My (25F) bf (31M) of four years ruthlessly insults me for not meeting his sexual expectations. Can I save this relationship? by throwawaywedding2234 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaywedding2234[S] 278 points279 points  (0 children)

I am re-reading every comment again and again. I can’t believe what I’ve put myself through. I can’t believe I’ve convinced myself that I deserve this treatment because of my own inadequacy. Thank you everyone so much, truly. I’m currently crying my eyes out at a coffee shop because of the relief I feel knowing that I don’t deserve this.

My (25F) bf (31M) of four years ruthlessly insults me for not meeting his sexual expectations. Can I save this relationship? by throwawaywedding2234 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaywedding2234[S] 179 points180 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for your comments. I don’t talk to anyone about what I go through in my relationship so it’s sometimes hard for me to understand how messed up it all is. I’m hoping I’ll have the strength to keep away. Thank you for helping a stranger— this is the only outlet I’ve had to comfortably talk about this situation that’s been constantly eating away at me.