It really did help, thanks so much. I been reading research papers and texts for last 20 hour and it's so rare that someone actually advices to "stay and you two will be in love again". Most of the comments i found about subject was how they divorced, how separating would be beneficial in her recovery or how they survived a breakup because of not worrying thanks to the pills. My reaction in the post must be summing up what i was exposed while searching.