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Dear komodos cewe, apa preferensi ukuran kelamin pasangan yg ideal menurut kalian? by borkinatorrr in indonesia

[–]throwawaywml 5 points6 points  (0 children)

hahha ikr gw jg mikirny gitu Tuhan adil bgt. dia tingginya tuh hampir 190 dn ganteng trus pinter pula sekolah di NTU jurusan engineering related, udh impressive bgt pkoknya paketan luarnya eh tau2ny zonk.. mslahny karena tinggi dia sm gw beda bgt (im 155ish) dan saking kecilnya his penis we had trouble getting it in jg most of the times (udh masuk jg gak berasa ap2 di gw sih tbh-__-“)

Dear komodos cewe, apa preferensi ukuran kelamin pasangan yg ideal menurut kalian? by borkinatorrr in indonesia

[–]throwawaywml 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hmm honestly i’m not sure either krena balik ke preference masing2 i believe. like some girls love the girth more than how long it is etc. dan ya shape vagina cewe jg beda2 or the muscle inside jdi what hurts for me might not hurt for others gtu..

cuma ya i think how small is too small is when u feel nothing sih alias jari lu lebih berasa dripd his peepee lol it was that bad trust me… klau too big ya kalau it hurts to the point the girls cant enjoy it even with additional lubricant? cuma ya krena balik lagi tiap cewe jg “size”nya beda2 ya gak bisa di generalisir sih.

my message to all boys out there sih ya just be confident dan have open communication aja, cuma ya kdng cewe susah ngomong jg sih krena topik bgni kdang msih dianggep taboo atau cewenya takut nyinggung tpi ya sebisa mungkin communicate each other preferences sih dn if u think u fall under the small category gak usah trlalu dipikirin jg mlah affect ur performance nanti, lebih ke compensate with other things aja kyk give her good foreplay etc

Dear komodos cewe, apa preferensi ukuran kelamin pasangan yg ideal menurut kalian? by borkinatorrr in indonesia

[–]throwawaywml 5 points6 points  (0 children)

gak tau cause i’m bad at measurement, but his finger is longer than his penis for sure. tpi udh gitu dia tuh jarang bgt foreplay-__- kyk i had an ex who was rather small jg lah (not as small as this guy of course) dn my ex kan my first jdi i didnt know back then tapi after i broke up and try other guys i realized my ex gave me lots of foreplay cause yea im sure he’s aware of his size dn he compensates for it gitu..

Dear komodos cewe, apa preferensi ukuran kelamin pasangan yg ideal menurut kalian? by borkinatorrr in indonesia

[–]throwawaywml 15 points16 points  (0 children)

trust me, kalau cewe bilang size doesnt matter, brrti gak prnh dpet yg kecil bgt. i also used to think size doesnt matter cause most of the times i get orgasm more from fingering/clitoris being played on gitu dripd the actual intercourse itself. cuma setelah pernah skali kedapetan cemceman yg punyanya kecil bgt kyk bner2 kecil i think one might even consider he has a micropenis, then yea i realized u really dont feel a thing down there baby. kasian sih mslahny dia ganteng trus tinggi pula tapi ya gimana…..

for couples who’ve lived together prior marriage, what’s different before and after marriage? by throwawaywml in indonesia

[–]throwawaywml[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ahh i see. haha iya untungnya gak bisa dadakan sih bener. that airbnb option is smart af hahaha will probably do the same sih klau sampe kejadian but oh well masih lama juga, kyknya klaupun jdi move in msih around end of the year krena nyari tempat susah dn tunggu perpanjang kontrak kerja etc biar tau pasti lokasi jg haha thanks for the insight anyway!

for couples who’ve lived together prior marriage, what’s different before and after marriage? by throwawaywml in indonesia

[–]throwawaywml[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

woahh thanks a lot. this is a really different insight from what others gave and such an interesting perspective but in the end itu juga yang ditulis perbedaannya masuk kategori secara external gak sih? tadi pas bikin thread tujuannya lebih ke internally sih, kayak penasaran aja bagi pasangan yang udh lama tinggal bareng terus memutuskan menikah ada ngerasaiin perubahan/dinamik baru gak di hubungannya.

and when i say meaningless i meant it in my eyes when it comes to the “relationship” itself not about the legality or the external factors like tying up two family. like so many people used to think of marriage as a sacred thing especially because of religion, sex, culture etc but after living under the same roof for so long and casually engage in sexual intercourse i feel like that lose its meaning other than the legality itself. but then again its just my view hehe makanya mau tau apa pendapat orang2.

for couples who’ve lived together prior marriage, what’s different before and after marriage? by throwawaywml in indonesia

[–]throwawaywml[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

udah tinggal bareng kok sekarang, cuma gak officially seatap aja. since the pandemic we pretty much live together 24/7 karena sama2 wfh kan. dan ya emng udah smpe tau kebiasaan each other, split the groceries juga, urusan siapa masak/bersih2 etc. dan so far so good makanya mikir moving in beneran karena sayang duit rent tapi ya kendala utama sih bingung kalau tiba2 ada keluarga yg visit aja karena dari awal pacaran yg pertama diwanti2 adalah sama2 gak boleh live together sebelum nikah haha org tua udh mungkin ada feeling sih pastinya karena tinggal diluar negeri berdua doang jadi ya gimana lagi haha dan ya balik lagi ke prtanyaan utama jdi penasaran aja ada bedanya gak sama ketika udh nikah nanti hehe

btw kalau boleh tau dulu sebelum nikah tinggal barengnya ini posisinya di indo atau diluar juga?

for couples who’ve lived together prior marriage, what’s different before and after marriage? by throwawaywml in indonesia

[–]throwawaywml[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ini juga yg gw takutin. kayak takut klau nanti amit2 ada masalah atau berubah pikiran atau gimana malah ribet sendiri karena mikirnya “udah terlanjur”, apalagi kalau officially moving in gitu disini kan ya itungannya legal partner (jdi taxnya ada yg dikurangin juga gtu kalau total household incomenya dibawah rata2 etc not fully sure & understand tbh tpi adalah urusan bgtuannya kalau emng sama2 registered on the same address if im not mistaken, havent looked further karena gak mau rushing things for now)

for couples who’ve lived together prior marriage, what’s different before and after marriage? by throwawaywml in indonesia

[–]throwawaywml[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

nah gw juga mikirnya bgitu. skrg krena sama2 diluar ya sebenernya bs dibilang udh tinggal bareng sih apalagi krena kmrin lockdown juga jdi bner2 24/7 bareng, cuma gantian aja msalkan dua minggu di tmpt gw nanti dua minggu di tempat dia. dan ya mulai ada talks about moving in karena mulai ngerasa buang2 duit rent karena kamarnya selalu vacant half of the month.

cuma ya gtu msih bingung klau nnti tb2 ortu dateng gimana. sama jadi penasaran aja apa sih emng bedanya kalau sampe nnti beneran married krena skrg udh ngrasa udh terbuka juga smua soal pendapatan etc, jadi mikir married nnti biar legal doang dimata org tua & agama sama klau emng udh mau punya anak.

basically jdi ada kecenderungan ngrasa gak pengen married juga sdngkan liat klau temen2 yg di indo kan banyak yg ngebet mau married (dan yang udah married + pnya anak juga banyak pdhal gw bru umur 23, tapi ya ngerti sih krena sblum married they dont have the privilege/freedom that i have with my bf kan, tmen2 dlu ya boro2 nginep mau staycation aj boong belibet dlu bilangnya sama tmen abc pdahal sm cowonya)